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Hello World.My name is Arielle, I'm 17 years old, but I know a lot about most things. I'm pregnant, and have learned a lot from the process. I'm a Christian, I'm in love, and everyone I know says I give really good advice. I will not answer your question if I feel like I couldn't give you good advice on it, but I will tell you I don't feel comfortable answering it. I won't just leave you hanging. Just a reminder that my advice is my opinion of the best solution for your situation with the information you give me, however, I can never fully know the situation, or your background. So if you do not feel comfortable with the advice I give you, please, go with your heart. That is the best advice I can give anyone FOLLOW YOUR HEART.
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"Humble yourself, therefore, under God's mighty hand, and He will lift you up in due time. Cast all your worries on Him because He cares for you."
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ok. i will start crushing on a guy soooo hard and then when they ask me out someone that i liked more will come back into the picture. and it makes it really hard to be with someone. And i cant ever find a guy that is what i want. it doesnt mean i go and throw them away i give them a chance but they never wanna go anywhere. all they wanna do is talk on the phone and sometimes hang out in person. and to make it harder i dont look like im 13. i have been able to pass for 15 and 16. which odesnt help me at all in this case. i dont know if its that there scared to try and hold me hand or kiss me. i dont know cause i never bring it up cause i also dont want to give them the wrong idea... please help. all i want is to be happy with a guy.
I know this is really hard, and when I was in middle school I had the same problem, and at the time I felt just like you. Very confused and like I was never going to find the right guy. You need to remember that you are still young, and relationships in middle school, although they seem like a huge deal, rarely last very long. When you get in high school things will get much easier, and relationships will be more serious. You'll be more mature, and be able to decide better who you want to be with, and what you're looking for in a relationship. The relationships you are going through right now will help you determine what you want in a guy. The reason you are having a hard time deciding right now is because you aren't sure what you want in a guy yet. Just hang in there, the right guy will come for you soon. : )