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I'm a 19 year old girl and I've been engaged to the love of my life for over a year now. He's 19 as well. Our relationship is great and everything runs smoothly except one thing. He's met all of my family and they love him but I haven't met all of his family yet because they live out of state. The problem is is that some of them have judged me cruely; told my fiancé I wasn't hardworking and wasn't worthy enough to be with him, even though they don't know me. Because of this they've been trying to get him to leave me for a girl that's a family friend down where they live. My fiance's reassured me that their opinion doesn't change how he feels about me and never will and they will have to live with it, but I don't know what to do. Not only was all this very hurtful but now I'm very worried about meeting them and if something bad will happen with them plotting to get my fiancé with another girl. I've even started wondering myself whether I'm good enough for him now. What should I do? Should I just ignore them? Should I talk to my fiancé more about it? I'm so afraid to meet them now because I don't know what will happen. Please help me. Any advice will help. Has anyone else had a similar situation? (link)
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First thing is to believe in your love. If you love eachother the way you say you do then you have nothing to worry about. You and your fiancé will stick together and if you have to stand up to the people who are judging and saying your not good enough. Do not let them make you feel bad they dont even know you. There comments are useless and disappointing. IF what you have is true love you can get trough anything. Also if your fiance really loves you then he wont evenn be bothered with his family trying to set him up with someone else.
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