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Im 16/f and im in love with one of my best friends whos 15/m. But i never said anything. I wanted to tell him this year, then when he started talking a bout my friend and asking me if she had a b/f i knew i had to tell him right then and there...so i did... things got a lil quiet but not for long we begun talking again and i asked him if he ever liked me?(mainly beacaus someone had told me that he had but i suposibly never showed any interest so he gave up...) He said he did but he just stoped... Now him and my friend are almost in the going out stage and im in a mad panic! I mean i love him sooo much and he liked me too, but we both never said anything! until i did a few weeks ago, what can i tell the guy? I arlready told him everything... yet i think hes holding somthing from me...

ok, dont feel bad i have had the same problem
except for the guy didnt go out with one of my friends.
but i liked him then i stopped and i asked him if he had ever liked me and he said yes but he stopped.
i know its not the same problem but it has the same point, you missed the chance with the guy you like.
the only thing to do is no it might be for the better maybe you are suppossed to meet some other great guy.
you cant tell him anything else except for how you feel about him. there is nothing else you can tell him.
i hope this helps.

just keep smiling :)

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ok, so i've liked this guy for a little bit but he's never shown interest in me before. Now he's suddenly started flirting with me and he's even tried to kiss me but he won't act like this in school. He'll only do this when we're hanging out alone with some friends. He's also notorious for being the biggest flirt in the world. I don't know what to do!

guys can be werid like that.
they will flirt with certain girls around certain people or just with one girl
cause they feel comfortable.
he also could just be nervous to show to everyone else he likes you. he might not know you like him to which might scare him more
be more open with him when yall are alone
and start talking/flirting to him more in school.
things might change for you.
just always have hope in the future

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Can someone please tell me what the hell is wrong with me?
Everytime i like a descent guy and then they like me back, i pull away and dont like them anymore.
Whats my problem!?!

sometimes
you get to scare
to admit that someone descent might like you back
or it could be you dont actucally
like them like them
you just have a little crush

dont feel bad at all, cause i have done that sooo many times but i cant say i regret it because of this quote i learned..
"there is no such thing as a regret.. cause at one point it was excatly what i wanted"

so at that point you didnt want to hook up with him. which is totally cool.
just from now
admit to it.
its ok.
you will be fine.
the worse is he can say no
&&
if he does
just know he wasnt the right guy for you

guys come and go
just remember that

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(im a girl)
anways okay this is really hard to explain but i'll try...my best friend ryan (shes a girl) moved and she went out with this guy hunter...hunter imed me one day (after him and my friend broke up) and we talked and stuff and he was so sweet and i thought i liked him but i had a boyfriend and i told him i did so ya...my boyfriend was like a really good friend 2 but i didnt think it was fair to date him when i really liked hunter you know so i broke up with him and on aim i was talking to hunter that same day.and i said guess what and he goes what and i was like i broke up with andrew and he goes you kno whats coming next...will you go out with me! i really wanted to say yes but i wanted to ask my friend first to make sure she was like over him and i said hunter asked me out...do you care if i say yes and she ignored me and started cussing hunter out and then so hunter imed me and said...maybe we should wait,i still like you,and im not taking it back i love you,you just broke up with your boyfriend though,so lets wait. and all that was fine with me....well two days later my friend ryan came and stayed at my house for like a week and then 1st night she was there,hunter and me were texting and he called me and we talked for lk 4 hours (it was the first time we has talked on the phone) anyways and then the next day me and ryan went with my uncle to look at his new house and hunter texted me and i said im out of texts so i cant talk now and so i said he could text ryans phone...so he did and he was like can you hand tayler the phone for a sec...so she did and i gave it back to her (i was like in the car talking to my uncle and i didnt want to like be texting him) and then she handed it to me again and it said "will you go out with me" and again i handed her the phone and just thought i will talk to him about it later...then he texted ryans phone again and said " i really like you...but i guess you dont like me" so then i felt horrible so i texted him back and said "no no i do like you its just i dont want you to hurt me" and he said "i would never hurt you,i love you too much" so then i said "are you sure this is what you want" and he said "i wouldnt want it anyother way" so i said yes...and he was a good boyfriend for like a week and then we would be like talking online and he would say i gtg baby i will call you tonight...then he wouldnt call and then we would fight and all this stuff...and it happened like 3 times...then he texted me and was like "baby im sorry i've been a bitch and im such a dumass for treating you like this and im lucky that you stuck around this long please forgive me...things will change i will be the boyfriend you deserve which is better that what i have been" and then he was better (we still hadnt met in person.but we did see lots of pictures) then he broke up with me said he wanted to be friends and then we would talk ever day texting...but he wouldnt talk to me on the phone and he would always ask me for pictures then the fourth of july he texted me and said "we dont need to be friends" i was like okay whatever..after this im not giving you anymore chances and he goes i dont care your ugly and and i go your not excactly the hottest guy i have dated eitehr and he goes oh ya thats why u wanted me soo bad and i was like it wasnt you i wanted hun it was a boyfriend but its fine cause im over it and he didnt text me back for like three days and when he did he re-wrote what i had written him the "it wasnt you i wanted hun it was a boyfriend but thats okay im over it" and then he wrote oh thats nice you played me..and he was like look im sorry ok can we jsut start over i understand if you dont want to be friends i jsut feel guitly sayin all that shit to you and im sorry and then we talked and i was like well i dont know if i can be friends with you...you hurt me and he said and you hurt me and im sorry and i was like well i only said it cause you were being rude and acted like you hated me and even though i liked you i wasnt gonna be like oh baby im sorry i love you...and he was like i jsut said it cause i had nothing to say and said he had to go and asked me to get on aim the next morning so i did and we worked everything out and then we talked on the phone every so often and then this whole thing happened where he said sorry i cant call you and i sent a message to christina (a girl thats friends with me and hunter) and it said if he calls you three way me and i accidently sent it to hunter and he was like yeah he got really mad at was like you thought i would to you blah blah blah and said i hate you get out of my life then the next morning he texted me and said sorry i was jsut upset cause i thought you lied to me and i for some reason forgave him and we talked and we "friends" and then he said i like you and i was like ok..and he would say i love you and i want to meet in person and all this"well he said that one night and the next morning he said i dont like you anymore theres no other girl theres jsut no girl at all...and then we just talked as "friends" and then he was on the phone with christina and asked her to three way me so she did but i didnt really talk directly to him cause he was only on the phone for like 5 minutes cause then he had to go and i stayed on the phone and chrisitna said hunter told me to tell you he likes someone..but he wont say who and i was like okay so later that night hunter texted me and i asked him who he liked and he was like i dont want to tell anyone and i was like okay well if you get ready to tell someone you can trust me and he was like ok and he said i like justins girlfriend,ariel (justins his best friend)and then he said i gotta go i will be back on later (he has been texting me from his sn) then his friend justin was like hey and i go hi and he was like whats wrong and i said stuff with hunter and he goes like what? and i said its jsut hard liking someone that doesnt like you back and justin said do you know who he likes and i said no and he goes if you do please tell me i wont tell him i sware and i said im sorry but im not gonna do that to him and he said this is hunter on justins sn i jsut wanted to see if i could trust you and i can so thanks and i dont like ariel i like you and it turns out him and justin were together the whole time and i was like ok no big deal i couldnt be mad cause he liked me again and then i didnt talk to him for 3 days and he texted me and said i dont like you i like someone else sorry and i got on aim and i was like who do you like and he said well i like you but u live really far away but if you move here i would love to go out with you (we live like 20 minutes away,and my parents are looking at houses out there) and so i was like so theres no other girl and he goes no there is her names courtnei and i like her alot and i was like oh and then i found out he has asked her out and she liked him and he liked her the only thing keeping them from going out was that she had a boyfriend when i started typing this i just wanted to see what you thought but unfortunately since its so long since the beginning of this i jsut found out in his friends away message that him and courtnei are going out and i dont know what to do i mean i want to just tell him off and be like im sicking of you treating me liked this and i could careless if we ever speak again and stand up to him but that would screw everything up with us for good and a big part of me still wants him..i dont know why cause i have had guys that treat me 10x better and since we broke up two guys have asked me out but i have said no for him...i was waiting for him and then he jsut moves on like im nothing and i feel like just...i dont know im just really upset and dont know what to do everyone tells me oh my gosh taylor just move on but i cant its i dont know theres something about him that i cant let go of...what that is i dont know cause i mean hes hott but not that hott hes nice sometimes and i just i dont know should i tell him that i like him that i love him that i want him that i hate him or as hard as it may be jsut not talk to him and see if he comes back to me or even notices im not there for him...or if he cares anyways please please help me... *** broken hearted
taylor

well tay. it seems like you really like this guy but like he doesnt seem to think of you that way. guys are werid and complicated. does he have a girlfriend now? if he does maybe that is the reason he is acting so strange and maybe he doesnt want to tell you. does he know you like him? well if he does.. he must not care that much about your feelings if he is doing this too. im sorry that he treating you like that. he doesnt have the right too. maybe you should sitt down and have a talk with him about how you feel and everything. dont yell or anything at him. just very nicely explain how you feel and how it hurts you when he acts mean to you. HOPE THAT HELPS

andrea

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