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I'm 23 and there is a guy I hung out with a few times and fell for like crazy but we didn't see each other for a few weeks and I thought it was over and felt devastated, but then we started texting again the other day. Of course I've welcomed it with open arms, but I'm also trying to play it cool, and I'm not totally throwing myself at him. I do sense he may be a little insecure and tentative so that prompts me to want to initiate conversation and try a little harder for him, but I don't want to fall into any kind of trap. At this stage in the game, how do you find the balance between playing it cool but also being warm and inviting? I don't want to throw myself at him but I don't want him to think I'm uninterested either! (link)
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I would just lay it out for him. No need to beat around the bush. Now and days you have to be upfront. You don't have to be pushy with it. Just go in gently. At your age, I know you are looking to have fun but I sense you want to start something serious in life. Just text him and say, "hey I know we have been talking for a bit, but do you see us going further, I would really like to get to know you better" Hope this helps!
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