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I've been dating my current boyfriend for almost 5 months. We live an hour apart and honestly, I've never had such a good relationship with a guy. My relationship with him is the kind that I could only dream of & hope for. And maybe for other people too. Everything seemed to be going along smoothly, no problems, and then out of the blue, my feelings just change. I all of a sudden didn't care to talk to him on the phone so I haven't talked to him in a couple days. I don't know, things just changed drastically & I don't know why or how. I know in my heart that I want to be with him more than anything & that I could never break up with him just because of how good our relationship is but I hate feeling like this & I want it to stop. Is there any way this can change?

You can't change your feelings you have towards somebody.
Your feelings changed about your boyfriend and they might change back.
Maybe you guys just need some time apart.
Give it some time, talk to your boyfriend.
You may not want to but just call him up.
I really hope everything works out between you guys i know i did not help much I'm sorry I tried the best I could.
♥ SweetKissez

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i always screw up. I screwed things up with my best friend... and now my cuzin. ok heres my problem: My cuz likes the same guy i like.. except shes known him longer. He liked me and i told her i liked him and she said cool. i said what if i went out with him? shes like, "that would be ok." and when he asked i said yes. I didnt tell her because i didnt have the heart too.. its only been 3 days since we started and my sis opened her mouth.. and i guess she was crying and said i promised her i would never date him.. the thing is i did. but she claims she said it wasnt ok.. so did her sis.. but she did. now she hates me. I need help. should i break up with him even tho i really like him.. or what??'
help ASAP please

thanks

Your cousin should understand that you like him and he likes you back.
When two people like each other they should go out with each other beacsue if they don't they lose a chance to see what would happen.
Talk to your cousin explain to her your feelings towards him and his towards you.
Don't break up with him you might regret it later.
If your cousin still hates you after you talk to her give her time to cool off.
What you did is not wrong, but you should have told your cousin right away.
Part of the reason your cousin is super angry with you is because she heard it from your sister when she should have heard it from you
Goodluck, If you need anything else just drop a comment in my inbox.
♥ SweetKissez

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okay well theres this guy i like alot and i mean alot !! he is like perfect.. anyways.. is four years alot or distance or no? i rate high !!! easy 5's guys!

In my opinion its fine.
Age is just a number; How you feel about the person matters more then the age difference.
♥ SweetKissez

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I keep having this dream where I see my boyfriend and his friend at a bar...the whole night is very mysterious but fun. I keep having it and seing him giving me a box while at this bar. What does this mean?

Well this could be just a dream or maybe it could really mean something.
Maybe it's a sign that he will give you something.
Do you have a birthday coming up?
I honestly don't know the answer to this.
No one can really tell you exactly what this means
♥ SweetKissez

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hey, its me again, um... thisis kinda comfusing but please help i rate well!!

there's this boy Dustin, who i've like for a lil over a year.. and ppl who are his friends and mine asked if i liked Dustin but then sed they dont know y he doesn't like me, then they sed that that he likes me and is going to ask me out.. then when he didn't ask me out yesterday, they sed that he likes me but he doesnt want me to know... and then they sed again they dont knwo why he doens't like me.

I'm sooo confused, how long should i wait before i move on? how shoudl i handle this? PLEASE help

JAckie

Yeah im confused to.
It seems that the guy does like you but maybe is to shy to ask you out.
If you really want to go out with him then i suggest you talk to him about both your feelings you have towards each other and see where that goes.
If he still doesn't ask you out then just move on he's not worth it.
♥ SweetKissez

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I am a tomboy and all the boys i kno dont like me. They just think i am one of them, a Boy. But i not i am a girl that likes boy things what do i do to get boys to think of me as a girl not a dude.

signed,
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I don't know how you dress but lets start with that first.
Wear girly things like skirts, cute tops, jeans, jewelery ( earings, necklaces, rings, but not to much).
For your hair try out cute hairstyles.
You could put your hair in a cute high ponytail, clip your hair up, put your hair in a bun, or just starighten/curl your hair and leave it down.
If you don't mind you could also get your nails done or do them yourself.
If you need anymore help drop a comment in my inbox
♥ SweetKissez

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okay so me and this guy are "together" he said... people have been asking me if were dating, but i have no clue... one of my friends asked if we were dating and he said yea... but when he talked to me he said "i see myself as your boyfriend", like whats the difference from being together, dating, going out and being boyfriend/girlfriend?? he told me theyre all technically the same, so what does he think we are then?!?! (are we bf/gf??

Well yea you two are together so that makes you boyfriend/girlfriend.
He did say himself he sees himself as your boyfriend.
♥ SweetKissez

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ok so heres my problem.
my cousin,(josh)is 17 was dating this girl sarah 19...
well josh told me to start talking to sarah to see what i thought of her.
well i did. we became really good friends.
then her brother started listening in our conversations and reading our ims when we would talk.
so she told him to talk to me so he wouldnt be so nosy. so i started talking to him. he's wonderful
he's 2 years older than me and he's wonderful..
so we got together.
even though i had met his sister,i had never met him. well, it turns out i started liking him.
alot
and thinking about him, all the time.and i told him i really liked him. and he said he felt the exact same way so..
he asked me out. and of course, i said yes.
he's almost 15 and i'm almost 14.
i love him, i do. with all my heart and he says he loves me back.i told him i wouldnt let myself
fall inlove until i go to see him in june.
but, i think i already have.
he is exactly what i've always wanted. he's perfect.
i think i'm too young to think he's the one.
but i want him to be. and i think, once i'm older he will be.
i think i might be getting a promise ring when i go see him. as in.. like promise to marry him, promise ring.
because of what his sister tells me.

when ever we have a fight, he immediately says its his fault and that he's sorry.
he says that he'd rather it always be his fault
than for him to be mad at me or me to be mad at him.

am i too young to think he's the one????
pllleeeeaaasssseee help
FAST!!!!!

i'll rate 5's.

You could be any age to think the person you like is the one.
It seems to me that he's a very sweet guy who cares alot about you, and you care alot about him.
Meet him first in person and then take it from there.
I hope everything works out with you two.
♥ SweetKissez

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is there a difference between when...

*a guy and a girl hugging when they say hello

*&& a guy and a girl hugging when they say goodbye??

just wondering thanks!

Umm in my opinion i don't think there is a difference. I think it's the same thing.
♥ SweetKissez

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