Hey
My name is Jasmine im 14 years old and im from cali! I'm gonna b a freshman in high school next year! yay! but im a lil nervous, ya know i got the pre-carnation jitters!
Dont be shy to ask me a question, ask me anything and i'll try my best to answer it. i'll get a picture of me up as soon as i can!
E-mail: ingajazz@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Cali
Age: 14
AIM: Musikchika14
Member Since: July 12, 2004
Answers: 12
Last Update: July 13, 2004
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my boyfriend, well ex-boyfriend, cheated on me w/ some hoe. and i haven't talked to my friends and i haven't eaten alot and i've been really depressed. i've also been crying for a little over a week now and it's just like.... like someone took my heart out and stomped on it and it won't stop hurting. i don't know how to make the pain go away? (link)
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this may seem like a hard thing to do but you have to move on. pick a day to go out with your friends and go scam on guys! check some out and flirt with them. forget him hes a loser, if he couldnt see how great you were, then hes a lowlife scum who wont have a decent woman. but you have to stop torturing yourself like this, u need to forget him and move on. whenever you start to feel depressed or anything again just repeat these words in your head "he wasnt good enough for me!" ok well thanks for your question and i hope this helps you. Jasmine
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hi jasmine i'm sorry to bother you but my daughter uses this sometimes and i was wondering from your point of view, if you could help. you see my husband and i have been getting into arguments lately about bills work the usual husband wives thing. and my daughter fears it's recking our marriage and we see councilers twice a week but it doesn't really get out what really bothers my husband and i think he does have a problem beside of the bills and work. and our family therapist told us to try this to see if it helps too. so if you had some ideas for advice on this situation i'd very much appreciate it, and so does my daughter. (link)
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Well, i think that maybe you should try to have a family meeting, kind of talk with just the family no therapists or councilers. just sit down and have a long discussion about how you all feel and everything. Maybe without all the therapists and councilers you all will find youselves more comfortable just talking about things with the family, instead of this person paid to listen. and who knows if they are really listenin, they could be daydreamin and then make up some weird mumbo-jumbo you dont understand. the only thing i've ever really heard a therapist say is how does that make you feel? and that really doesnt get you really anywhere, so i believe that you'll get a better outcome if you plan one day to sit donw and have a family meeting, to get all you feelings and everything out. just do your best to stay calm and dont argue just talk about things in a civilized manner. well thank you for your question and i hope this helps you. Jasmine
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