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16/f.
alright well i met this guy on homecoming night back in september. we got along really well and we flirted alot. but he had a girlfriend. and they have been going out for a little over a year. well we were really close to kissing then i had to run to the bathroom cause i had to puke. well in the middle of october.. there was another party and he was there. and he kept looking at me and he was flirting with me too. but nothing happened again b/c i left early. well then i seen him on holloween night trick or treating and he smiled and we talked for a minute. and then in november there was another party and i asked him if he was still goin out with his gf and he said no that they broke up.. and then my friend asked him and he told her the same thing. well me & him ended up making out and cuddling the whole night and we slept in the same bed, we were about to do more but i felt weird that there were other ppl in the room. then i got his number. well we have been talking on the phone ever since then and we havent really hung out but we have seen each other and talked alot. my friend talked to his ex gf and she said they never broke up. and that they are still going out. so i know he cheated on her but when i asked him if he was still going out with her over the phone he said he didnt know. i dont know what to do. i really like him and i know he likes me.. i think hes just afraid to break up with her because they have been going out for so long. but he is supposed to be coming over in like an hour and a half and i dont know what to do. what if he comes into kiss me or something. i dont want to start any problems but i really like him alot. and i dont want him to cheat on her.. even though i dont like her.. i know how it feels to be cheated on. so what should i do?
ok well first tell him how you truly feel about this situation. ask him if he is still going out with her, or if hes not sure. try to get to the root of the problem with some questions. DO NOT do anything to close with him before knowing what is going on between him and the other girl all though dont make him feel to uncomfortable. If its sounds like hes cheating on that other girl, dump him. A guy isnt worth your time if he wants to be a pimp and play two girls at once. Also, another good way to fix the problem is to have all three of you at once talking. Weither it be in person, on the phone or online, talk to each other all at once. Kind of like a group meeting. Thats the best way to solve a problem. Well anyways, if things dont work out for the best, just say "screw it". Theres plenty more fish in the sea. A bowl of ben and jerrys ice cream always workd for me. =D!! Hope my adviced helped!
With a Smile,
Holly The Smexxi Beast =]]
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ok i went to camp and made friends with some guys.
now camp is over and one of them likes me and i like him. he always asks me if i wanna hookup and i obviously want to. he lives like 40 min away from me and only get to see him on camp reunions. we have been liking eachother for like 1 month and we talk online. but everyday i feel that i like him less and less. i never see him and wont for like a couple months.
does this relationship have a point? should i just be close friends with him or what?
ok so you guys live 40 minutes away. no sweat babe. get his number. call him and talk to him. chat online. or even e-mial. with technology these days people could be 1 million miles way and feel like thier right next to them. its crazy. love has a way of finding its match. there is always a reason in why u have a relationship with someone. its because you care about them. if u try hard enough to keep it going it gets better and better. trust me on this one. hope my advice works.
With a Smile,
Holly The Smexxi Beast=]
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