about

Ok, so my name is Jess. That's how I'll start off. I'm your typical 14 year old. Hanging out with friends, shopping, listening to music you now a regualr teenage girl. I absolutely love to sing and act and have always for basically my whole life time. I probably came out of my mother singing. I love emo, rock, and punk music. I also like helping others, although I can be conceided sometimes, but who isn't. But I'm always there for the people who need me.

advice

i'm having no luck getting a boy friend.
Are there any things i can do?
i dont mean like, as far as beauty things. but just flirting things...get things moving again.
thanks, i know its a weird quetion, but i do need help!
i rate high!

Boyfriends come naturally.

You need a guy that likes you for you.

Not the way you flirt.

You can't make a boyfriend come out of no where.

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Kay well my boyfriend IMed me and said " if i recieved a nickel for every time i saw a girl as beautiful as u i would have 5 cents" & i odnt get it!! is it sweet?? im not stupid or anything haha.xOx thnk you !!

Haha, yes it is sweet. He's saying that he only has 5 cents from seeing you because he's never seen anyone as beautiful as you. So YES it is good and it is sweet and no your not stupid lol

Hope I Helped

Simply_Jess

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my boyfriend and i wanna have sex but we dont know when to. our parents both really dont want us to but we want to do it anyway. what should i do?

I'd say if your really sure about this go ahead. I just don't want you rushing into things and then getting your heartbroken. Don't get me wrong I'm not saying your boyfriend doesn't love you. Just make sure he's right, I've seen girls get hurt before, and I wouldn't want you getting hurt. Make sure he is right and i KNOW your going to use protection of course. You should fill your parents in and tell them everything is fine. just do they don't freak.

Hope I helped

Simply_Jess

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PLEASE DON`T SKIP THIS! I REALLY NEED HELP!

Okay so there`s this boy, we`ll call him jeff. and i really like him. a lot. okay so i hang out with jeff a lot then one day i told him i like him and he blushed and changed the subject right away. so we were hanging out 2 days ago and he was being really sweet. not that he`s never sweet or anything but he was different. it was me, jeff, and our friend. but most of the time it was just me and jeff. he was being really nice. he insisted on buying me food. when it started pouring on us.. he took of his sweater and gave it to me. everytime i look at jeff i catch him looking at me and he blushes and then he smiles at me. what do you think? do you think he likes me or is he just being nice because he knows i like him? you don`t have to be positive but i just want a few opinions. PLEASE help

I'd say someone's has the hots for you. Which is an totally awesomely thing. I would say talk to "Jeff" about this little situation going on. Tell him you've caught him glimpsing at you and don't forget to remind him it's not bad. You should also tell him more of how you feel and if he feels the same way. If he says something negative don't get your panties all twisted in a bunch just don't sweat. There's always other guys out there for you and he may need some time.

Hope I helped.

Simply_Jess








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should i tell my mom about my first kiss? if so how

I never really told my mom about my first kiss, and she is my best friend. If your mom and you are really close I'd say go for it. There's nobody better than a mom to tell your life too, because you know she's always going to love you.

Hope I helped

Simply_Jess

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That's good your in a relationship. If my boyfriend ever said to me that it seems I don't like him alot, I would tell him if I didn't like your alot I wouldn't be going out with. Don't do anything you don't want to do meaning sexual wise just so he'd like you more. And don't make him pressure you or anything. And it's always good to say I love you first, because you both will get the oppurtunity, I would say it's good to say if first sometimes, so he doesn't always feel like he has to say it first. And if you say it after him only because you're scared he's not going to say it back don't sweat because if he has said i love you to you be before he must really love you. And on AIM don't worry about it, it all comes from the heart.

Hope I helped.

Simply_Jess

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