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Hi, i am in a long distance relationship and some days i really like the way things are going, my partner has alot of girl mates who he gets along with and hes still friends with his first ex-girlfriend and at times i feel like i havent given him much sexual attention and i obviously cannot do this physically so im scared that he might go and do something with someone else (his first ex) ive confronted him about this but have not mentioned that im worried because hes getting close with his ex ive just told him im scared to lose him and that he might do something stupid, all he replied was "well i havent done anything yet"
and a friend of mine asked him hows things going between me and him he didnt answer he said that his ex wants to have sex with him now that she isnt in a relationship anymore. also a few months back she even confronted him about her feelings towards him and how she still has feelings for him and now shes getting closer to him and he likes it
so what should i do? should i end it ? should i just trust him ? should i confront him about this girl ? because he hasnt said that he still speaks to her i have found that out from my friend
what should i do?
i dont know what he does in his spare time whether he lies to me when he says hes going work or going out with family etc i dont know :'( i feel like ending it with him but i love him so much to the extent where when he asked me "if i do something dumb would you take me back" and i said yes because i truly love him and i understand the situation we are in (link)
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It's very hard to let someone go that you love. But if he doesnt have respect for you, and if he is saying 'well he hasn't done nothing yet" that means that he is waiting for an opportunity to do something. I will would break up with him before you get hurt because yourself matters more than anyone else! If he is liking that his ex girlfriend likes him again, then they probably already did something. Long distance relationships are pointless to me, and I just don't trust them. I am pretty sure that your beautiful inside and out and there is probably a guy out there who is looking for you! so don't beat yourself up and don't waste your time on someone who has their options open. You should be the only option on their mind! Do me a big favor don't get into another long distance relationship again!
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