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I love giving advice, although I rarely take my own advice. After being single for years, I finally met someone who I can see myself with in the future. He means so much to me. I've dealt with alot in my past...cheating husband, drugs, family problems, etc. I didn't like who I was and made major changes in my life. And hopefully I can help you deal with your issues and I have my own.
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so im 17. i was going out with my boyfriend for 6 months then we broke up and got back together 6 months later after 14 months of being together in a great relationship, he just ended it cause we were arugeing. were still "friends" & we have hooked up a few times (sex) i really want to get back together with him but im not sure how he feels he says he doesnt wanna but i no he loves me and i think he just might need time. i dont wanna go to anyone else or forget about him just yet i still think there might be a chance to get him backk... ADIVCE PLEASE! (link)
Ever heard of the sayings: If you love him, let him go, if he comes back it was meant to be or Absence makes the heart grow fonder?

These sayings are TRUE! You're still young. You still have a lot of experiencing to do.

My advice: Let him be. It's easier for me to say and harder for you to do. But there's no use sitting around worrying about it every time you breathe. Having sex with him isn't going to help anything either. If you're really serious about wanting to be with him again, let him be. If it's meant to be he'll eventually get love sick and come running back! Trust me...absence DOES make the heart grow fonder!





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