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Hey guys sry if its long but I'd appreciate the help !
So about 2 months ago I was in the train and I saw a gorgeous guy
He started looking back at me and we exchanged glances and
Even a couple of smiles. Then like 10 mins later he comes a little
Closer and says hi my name is nate and he asks for my name
And was just a total gentlemen and looked really sweet.
Then when he was about to get of asked for my number to keep
In touch. I was so excited because he was a total cutie.
Btw, before he left he invited me to a club. Now that isn't
Something I normally do. I'm a total romantic girl I love going
Out to dinner with my guy or going to watch a movie.
So the next day he called and asked me to email him a pic.
I said sure then he said a sexy pic?? I was a little confused and just
Sent him a normal pic but he kept asking me for a pic and to
Put on some shorts. I told him that I'm not that kind of girl
And that I need to get to know him. So he said ok. Btw he's 20 yrs old.
Anyway the next day he invited me to go clubbing again. I said I couldn't
And I called him the next day and invited him to the movies.
He said he hates the movies and would rather me to go over to drink??
I don't drink. I'm a total good girl, haha. So anyway we haven't spoke
Lately and idk wat to do. He's so cute but I don't club. Or drink.
I feel like we live in 2 diff worlds. He was a total gentlemen
When I met him. I guess I just want him to like me becuase I have
This huge crush on him and I can't stop thinking about him. I tried
But it didn't work. I guess I just wanted to give him a try and see if
It could work out but we have 2 diff interests. I wanna hang out with
Him but don't know what to say when I call him. Any ideas or advice about
The whole situation?
Also I've been trying to contact him like I text his other phone once and
He didn't reply. I know he likes me he told me he could see myself
With him, but I guess I just want advice on how to tell him
That I really can't stop thinking about him and I want
To have a serious relationship with him. Help ??? Btw I don't wanna
Just say it, it might sound weird and desperate haha. What do I do?. I seriously can't stop thinking about him. ! (link)
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He only wants to have sex and will tell you anything he thinks may get you to give it to him. Actions speak louder than words, especially when it comes to figuring out how a guy really feels about you. Just because he told you that he could see you guys together doesn't mean he's being sincere with you. The first indication was him asking you to send him sexy pictures of yourself before you even had a conversation with him...I'm glad you have more respect for yourself then so many other girls and women do nowadays, it's good that you didn't give in to him and end up doing something you wouldn't be comfortable with. Guys like the one you met on the train are a dime a dozen and the best way to handle the situation is by flirting with them casually and nothing more. Don't let your desires for love and romance cloud your better judgment. I know it's exciting when a guy you think is really cute makes a move on you, it can make you feel more confident and put you in an all out awesome mood, especially when you're not used to that sort of thing happening all the time. Just try to remember that those feelings don't necessarily mean that the guy who's flirting with you is going to be that perfect cute romantic boyfriend you've always wanted, because you may never even talk to each other again...And that's OK, life goes on. Whatever you do, DO NOT TELL HIM THE WAY YOU ARE FEELING! All he will do is use the fact that you have a crush on him to get whatever he wants out of you and whenever he decides he doesn't want to use you anymore then he'll probably never talk to you again. If you texted him and he didn't respond doesn't that show you that you're not a priority to him? The best thing to do is lose his number and do whatever you can to stay busy so he won't be on your mind all the time. I promise you'll meet tons of other guys who'll be a lot of fun to flirt with and eventually you'll even find one that will genuinely share your feelings of being in a relationship. Good luck.
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