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I know that I might sound a little jealous or over protective but just put yourself in my shoes for a minute.... Ok my boyfriend cheated on me a couple weeks ago and I gave him another chance, but I can't trust him anymore, Well tonite he is goin over to his ex-girlfriends house to help her with her "homework", i am really worried and I am also scared.. I was messing around and asked him if I said it was ok if he would do something with his ex and he said hell ya and I said well im not giving you permission. But do you really think that is going to stop him? Any ways i am really confused.. if you help me I will definetly rate you!! thanksok now im like freakin out im srry but I really need someones help and fast me and him have been together for quite a bit and i dont wanna lose him i can actually say right now that i... well.. i love him!. (link)
Hey.

I'm really sorry to hear about your boyfriend, but if he cheated on you once, he more than likely will cheat on you again. And his attitude towards your relationship is VERY negative. If he cheated on you once, and he realizes it was a mistake, he wouldn't be making jokes about doing things with his ex-girlfriend. You definetly need to get rid of this guy because you could find a way better one who would not cheat on you and would give you the respect that you deserve!


ok...so theres this guy his name is...lets say its joe*well, he pretty cute,red head, hilarious, and a sk8er. well im neither a prep nor a sk8er or anything else. i wear wut i like and lististen to wut i like. well, he really liked me and still does and i liked him a lil bit 2,but wen he asked me out i said no... im not like shallow or anythin and never really hav been its just hes shorter then me and i wanted to wait for volleyball to end and there had been a lot of guys botherin me l8ly to go out with him and i didnt want to say yes to him and brake their hearts since one of them might as well be worshiping me cuz he likes me so much. well, anyway, so hes goin out with sum other gurl to try and get over me and its drivin me insane!im so jealous and heartbroken. well he still flirts like an idiot even tho he has a gurl, and im still kinda afraid to go out with him. not to mention i wanna concentrate on volleyball and i hate endin up with a broken heart which i always do and im kinda bein "miss independent"ish.what should i do?:( (link)
Why should you be jealous of him having a girlfriend when he wanted YOU to be his girlfriend before anyone else? If this is bothering you so much, tell him you made a mistake and you want to try and work things out with him. It's better to see what happens than to sit and wonder about what could have happened if you had done something about it.


this is really screw up cuz like these 2 girls like me they r best freidsn..yet they both r my rxs and 1 of em r my best friends ex g/f to..yet now his g//f broke up with him and now she likes me..she has asked me to amny things sucha s the haunt and homecoming...I dont know what to do jsut because Idk if I like her..techncailly I cant tho becuz my best friend si still in love with her...he likes her so much...yet she likes me so much..she doesn't care if i like ehr or not she is like boseesive..and I alrdy got ym eye on a girl too..plus I alrdy got a date fore the homeocming..and it will b the 3rd hmeocming I've gone too... (link)
I don't know about everyone else, but I can't read a thing you just said.

Yeeeeaaaahhhh!!!


ok whenever i ask a chica if she will go out with me she always says no well not no but we are really good friends the uasual thing, and i havn't asked out a girl in a while and i am afraid to get hurt again, my life seems pretty good so far, but there is this one chica that i like but i am afraid to get hurt, so here it is

how do i get her to like me and for once in my life be able to feel the love that most people feel and get a yes from her.

thnx to all

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My brilliant answer:

If you're not friends with this girl already, you need to do a few little things to show her what a great guy you are. You don't have to do a lot, just make a few nice comments to her, or make sure she sees you doing something nice for somebody else. If she has any sense, she'll realize you're a great guy and will love to go out with you!

But if you're not really a nice guy at all and you're a total jackass, then you're pretty much out of luck. :)






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