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Im Dani. Im Just Me. If you know me, you know that im usually good with giving advice and helping people out, but if you dont know me.. you can still ask me.. cause id lovvvvve to help hahaha..

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ok well..My best friend told me she liked this one guy and how great he was. Then after i started thinking about how great she said he was i started to like him too! And i dont know what to do I can't try to get him because she liked him first! Or maybe i can if he like me more than her im just not sure.

do either of you even know if he likes 1 of you?. like if you dont then worry about that first. but.. if he does like one of you then thats who should go for it. i mean it just makes sense and its just a boy. dont let it get in the way of your friendship.

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*sry if to long but please read*
well im in 7th grade and we have some 8th graders in my PE class. and theres this guy i think is pretty cute but ive never met him but were always kinda glancen at each other every once in a while n stuff and it might be a bit obvious that i think hes cute but idk if he thinks i am. anyways so today he was talking to these 2 girls and i was talking to 1 of my friends and one of them turned around and was all hey do yall think hes cute? so i was like uhh idk and i said softly (well i hope softly) liek not really and my friend was like no and they were like omg i think hes cute n stuff and i was kinda blushing. i would go out with him if he wanted to go out with me but im not sure and i REALLY hope that that didnt make any of a difference. id really kno what im asking, i just need someone to kinda tell me if i did the right thing or not

please help...x3

wellll.. if you think hes cute you shoulda said it!!! like.. maybe he was using the question as an ice breaker.. to see what you thought cause maybe hes thinkin that ur cute and wants to get to know you. so id say to try and make friends with him, go up to him say hey. introduce ur self start a convo or sumthing.. dont be shy!! and then figure out where to go from there.

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Ok Well, I just got back together with my boyfriend. We had broken up in about Febuary we were on and off through the summer and stuff but now we're officially "together" Well going back to school i havent seen him at all. Or talked to him in 5 days for that matter. I try to call him he doesnt answer, I try to see him at school but its so busy. But I feel he doesn't make any effort like i do. I mean i love him and everything but it's gotten so complicated...What should i do?

talkkkk to him about it. really. like 'communication is the most important thing in a relationship' is what ppl say and i really think thats true. buttt.. like..if you honestly think its not working maybe you guys need to take a break cause if you love him.. then.. you know tht youll get back together even if you decide to take a break. but who knows maybe.. hes leading on a breakup or maybe hes just busy girl!. like.. its the beginning of school. dont sweast it too much and just.. talk to him about it.. thats the only thing you can do. hope everything works out!!

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I feel like im on the fucking lizzie mcguire show...anyway ive got this person and hes all amazingly hott andi realy want his body...that bitch has a girlfriend...should i beat her up? or should i just harrass her till shes far away? ....maybe even make her dissapear out of thin air? theres always the option of rape but i guess thats a fellony? i dunno ill ask Wida

oh wow. uhmm. no. dont touch the girl. hahah its not her fault. but i guess all you can do is just.. haha wait for them to breakup? because if you ruin a relationship for him hell probly be.. uhmm pretty pisssed off and youd loose all chances anyway. but id say get close to him as friends for now. so atleast you have that pleasure. hahh.. yeh.. i hope that helped.

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well my best friend really likes me and i dont really like him more than a best friend, to make things worse for him i like this kid that he hates and i dont really wanna tell him and make him mad at me...what should i do?

for one. you gotta tell your best friend that you dont have feelings for him, other than just best friends. but make sure you dont hurt his feelings or whatever. and then you should tell him that you do have feelings for someone else, then break it to him about who it is, but he really shouldnt be 'mad at you' if hes rallyur best friend. and just tell him ur still his best friend and no one esepcially this guy he hates, will come between you. but you just gotta tell him how you feel. best friends shouldnt keep secrets from eachother.

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okay.. I really like this one guy.. and hes not only jus a guy but hes like my best friend too.. and he has a girlfriend right now and no1 knows that i like him.. i kept it inside myself for a while and im afraid to let him know how i feel becauz i dont kno how he's gunna react.. its not only that but he lost his virginity to me too so its kinda weird.. what do i do???????

okay wow. if you had sex- then its obvious that you have feelings for eachother?. and.. i mean unless it was like one of those drunken mistake things and it meant sumthin to both of you then he relaly souldnt be with this other girl in my eyes. butttt...either way.. you really really need to tell him how you feel.

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Hey..i need a little bit of help...ok i really like this guy...but were like best friends..he doesn't see us that way...what can i do to get his attention and get him to like me???
Thanks,
Best Friend Love

hmm.. well. ive been in that situation before, and.. well the first question is..does he know you have feelings for him.. ones that are more than just best friends. because if he doesnt you need to tell him if you really want more than just his friendship but dont come right out and be like omg i like you.. thtd be a little intimadting i think but i think you should just maybe give him hints at first and then maybe slide into a conversation about who you both like.. cause who knows? maybe hes feeling the same.. but.. then again if his feelings for you are really nothing more than a good friendship you cant change that, and on the birght side, a best friendship is more important and usually last longer than a relationship. but whatever you do dont loose your friendship with him if you guys are realy that close. hope i kinda helped? hehe..

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no one has asked me anything yet, haha.. but feel free.

yeh tht was me.hahaha

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