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Q: My boyfriend and I have been asking each other really personally and random questions.And we both awnser all the questions that we ask.We've told each other everything I think (e.g. almost anything to do with sex,mastrabation or ANYTHING like that.).My question is does anyone have any random sexual questions I can ask him ? DON'T hold back we can ask each other ANYTHING.
Dear Curious,
it's kool that you two are ready to be so open with one another. A little bit of advice I'd like to give before I get to the good stuff is don't get to curious. Trust me, I've had many relationships crash and burn because of this. I tend to get really excited and want to know everything I can about the person asap. GINORMOUS MISTAKE !!! When learn everything that made you interested in the first place you begin to lose interest in that person. Later on you'll have nothing to keep you hooked because you already know everything. But enough about that, lets get to the good stuff. ask him questions that will arouse him and keep you REALLY interested in what he has to say. Start by asking him what he finds sensual or attractive in you then continue on by asking if he were locked in a room with you for 3 hours have him say everything that he would like to do with or to you. If its sexual (as it is likely to be;) Have him go into great detail and have him explain how it would feel to him and you. Then before you know it, I GARUNTEE that you'll be well on your way to a VERY intense conversation that in the end will get one or both of you sweating ;)hope that I've been of some assistance to you.
*Paige_Halliwell*

Q: i like this guy an i think he feels the same way
we have been best friends for like ver an i have been there for him through alot of things
an well today his friend asked him "1-10 how much do you like her more then a friend"
he said"umm i'd say 8 1/2"
well does that mean he likes me or not?!?!?
Dear 1-10,
Of course this means he likes you ! give him time to get to know you and it could be a 10 before you know it ! Just remember not to over do it, you dont want to scare him you want him to like you even more. my advice is to wait a little bit longer to see if he goes for you because if he wants you bad enough he'll work for you. You know you got a good one when they've worked to get you. Dont give in to soon make him chase you and he'll want you evn more !
Good Luck !!!
*Paige_Halliwell*

Q: so there's this guy, and we're really good friends, i mean since like kindergarden, our parents even do stuff together. well lately i have been starting to notice i really like him. i don't know how to get him to like me back, without asking him out, any advice?
Dear He's My Friend
This is a very complicated situation. First of all I'd like you to consider wether or not your feelings for him are truely genuine. As much as people would like to disagree, the fact of the matter is that relationships between friends sometimes do not end up the way we like them to. Before you decide to do anythin irrational you might want to determine what exactly about him makes you feel that way and if you do truely have feelings for him you may also want to consider wether or not your willing to risk your friendship with him. Unfortunatly more times than not when one person reveals that they have certain feelings for that person and that person does not return those feelings the mutual friendship they once shared can never be the same. Even if you tell him and he does not feel the same way and he still says that its ok and nothing will change between you that is not always the case. There will always be that underlying, subconscience awkwardness. So if you decide your truely in love and would rather spill your heart and risk your friendship with him then you are destined to do so. If you are not truely in love then my advice for you would to be cool with him untill you find out how he truely feels about you otherwise you may be risking the lose of an incredible friendship. i hope that I have been of some assistance to you and good luck !!
*Paige_Halliwell*

Q: im bi, ok well this time i have to say life sucks cant find anyone im about to give up on life and tring to find anyone for myself sucks seems like theres know one out there for me any advice???
Hi ME AGAIN
When you look for something you can never find it. When you lose your keys and look for them you dont find them but when your not looking for them they just show-up right ? well with relationships its like that to, when you look for them they're no where to be found but if you just let live and be yourself they'll fallright into your lap. You dont NEED anyone to be happy, its just nice to have them along for the ride. Play hard to get, the harder you play the more they'll want you, trust me. if you need anymore advice just put your e-mail in my feedback if you feel comfortable and I'll get back with you. I hope that I've been of some assistance to you, Good luck !
*Paige_Halliwell*

Q: 13/f

When a guy asks me out, how can I say 'No'?

Can I have an example of what to say?
Dear 'Saying No'
Most of the time it depends on the guy but personally my favorite is "Im going through a very complicated time right now and I dont think that I could handle a relationship at this point in time, your a really nice guy but I need to staighten out my life first. Im really sorry."
That usually works for me. I hope it works for you as well. Good Luck !

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Paige_Halliwell
Hi ! I thought this would be a good chance for me to help people, I've always been the person everyone comes to when they need advice so i figured I could help even more people here ! I am really excited to hear from you all and possibly become a friend you look to for help. Im a VERY open mided person and ANYONE and EVERYONE is welcome to ask me anything and I'll do my best to answer them to my fullest extent. I cant wait to hear from you !

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