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Heyy, I'm Melinda... I'm 13 almost 14 growing up in Massachusetts. I have dirty blonde hair and blue eyes. I found this site online, and so I signed up.. because I'm cool like that. I like giving advice, dunno why though! My friends always come to me and seek advice, so yeah... Some of their questions are on here too. Oh, and if your some teenage slut that sleeps with guys and thinks shes pregnant.. then asks for advice... I'm not gonna give you a real answer, only because I'm not even in high school yet! So yeah, thats me..


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ok so me and my boyfriend had been going out for a while but then i found out he kissed some girl at his camp while we were going out, so i dumped him. but now i think im into him again. im scared that if we get back together he well cheat on me again. wat do i do??


Jane (14)

Well tell him you don't like that he cheated, then say you miss him and want to be with him again.. Hope I helped

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Melinda

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Theres this girl in my school and she can be a real biattch sometimes. But all of my other friends like her and it's really sad because she's nice to me when my other friends are around...but not when were alone. Shes usually a very nice person, but i dont know why she isn't nice to me. Its not like im weird or anything.

Tell her that it bugs you that she treats you different. She might not even notice that she does... If so, it might be because of an "image" she likes to portray... hope i helped, and tell me how i did w/ feedbacking.. thanks =)

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Ok well i went out with this guy and he cheated on me we broke and i gave him another chance n i cheated on him. Now were friends but i mean MADD good friends like w.benefits and im sooo into him again. I like him soo much and i get soo jealous soo damn easy. And idk i think and worry about him so much i get sick and i just want to give up. Im not sure he still likes me i think hes using me for the stuff we do. What do i do?

-Sick and Confused

well try not to think about him as much. If you feel that way- it might not be over for you. He might feel the same way. Tell him you desire him. But don't sound like a stalker. Tell him you miss what you had. Hope I Helped!!!

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well .. i had sex with my boyfriend last night .. and all my friends know i was at his house .. so they asked what went on . i told them we just watched some movies theni left .. but i really spent the night there having sex. we didnt use protection and im scared i may be pregnet .. theres no way i can talk to my parents about this or my friends .. and honeslty i love having sex with my boyfriend so i dont think i can stop. i just wanna tell my friends what really went down .. buht i dont know how they`ll react. please help me. - kris

right-o.. thats cool and all.. but im not the kinda girl to aanswer this one.. go find some other slut to tell you

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Well me nd mii boyfriend have been goin out for a realli long time and we havent been anywhere together in what seems like an even longer time. We're both so buisy. What should we do about it?

plan a night every so often when the two of you go out somewhere. If you never have time, then maybe you two aren't meant for each others schedule. hope it helps!

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Yes well i like this guy sooooooooooo much Like very much. I have fantasys about him and i think about him all the time. Ive even cut myself thinking about this guy. I know i cannot have him thats why. How can i stop it. I Dont want to tell him and i dont want to hurt myself anymore so what should i do?

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Hurt but Loving

Hide the sharp objects!! Get kiddy scissors. Try not to think about him as much. I know your better than that. Not in your league, eh? It doesn't mean you have to give up and hurt yourself. Make your "fantsys" happy things. hope it helps-

Melinda

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