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hey i'm Danielle. i'm sixteen and i like helping people with there problems. =]

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One of my bestfriends has like tons of guy friends (and alot of them are really hot) they always come up and talk to her. When they come over to her i dont know what to say to make them notice me too!! help with some convo. starters that arent like so how are you and hows it going! ha ha ha!!!

lol these guys probably notice you but if your quiet around them they dont know if you notice them back. the next time they walk up to you and your friend just ask a random question or try to flirt the best as you can. it'll usually work. hope it works out for you

good luck

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Me and my friend, Max, we have been very close together, though we only met in the beginning of this school year. We hang out everyday after school, we also went through a lot of things together and we even went out once. We hug many times, and we even hold hands, which I think is really cute. He is really sweet (he performs a lot of sweet acts to me), he protects me a lot, he really cares a lot about me, and just have many good qualifications. I really really like him, probably even love him. But I don't know if he considers me as his girlfriend and I also don't know whether to consider my boyfriend. However, the thing is that we both know we really like each other, but we both are VERY shy. We haven't kissed yet, but I really want him to kiss me first (I don't know why, I don't want to scare him) Some of my friends even told me, he not only likes me, but probably even loves me (by the way he acts when i'm near him and he always mentions me 24/7 when he's with other people) and that they're pretty sure he really wants to kiss me too, but he too, is just really REALLY shy and also think that I might get scared. They said it probably crosses his mind once in a while whenever he thinks about me, but they told me not to worry, because he'll get it over soon and if I give him a little more time, he'll get more confident and will kiss me. By the way, we are closer than ever, so that's a very good thing, I'm guessing? So, do you think he considers me as his girlfriend and do you also think he will kiss me any time soon?

Please help me!!!! >.< (16, Female)

it's realllly cool that you guys are so close and all but i know what you mean about not knowing how he thinks of you. for all you know he's probably asking the same question to himself. so it's hard to judge what he thinks. If your friends say that it's a good bet then it PROBABLY is. I'm guessing that he's a true gentleman by the way you talk about him so he would probably ask you out first before he kisses you. that way, two birds with one stone. you'll know both answers at once =]. i hope i helped a little but you gotta make your own decision on this one =]

good luck

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