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Q: Alright here's the deal.
My boyfriend (16) and I (15) recently took a break from each other because I found him too clingy. It has been nearly a week, and.. let's call him chuckNow chuck thinks were dating again. But we are not. I've tried talking to him but it doesn't work. He has my name in his MSN name again, and is telling everyone were back on, I usually have no problem with confrontation, but in this case, I simply cannot tell him were not dating. Now I've sent him a e-mail telling him were not dating,
but I don't know if he'll get the message in time and i don't want him to be to hurt..
Any advice you can provide will help a lot, i am sure..
Thank you so much in advancw (:

Sincerly
CueTheLights.
I think the more you lead him on the more he will be hurt when he finds out the truth. You need to tell him that its over straight to his face, i know it may hurt him but he'll be hurt more if you carry on just letting him believe that you are dating.
Hope i helped
Kasper

Q: Guys and girls awnser plz!If a guy asks if you have a boy friend or not, dose that means he's interested?like i was talking to this a guy that i know on msn and he was like "soo do u have a bf?"It was so random... it had nothing to do with the conversation...
I'm pretty sure he's interested, why else would he ask?! xD
Kasper

Q: 16/f/bisexual
i feel like everyone only looks at me in a sexual way, boys and girls. i really want a true relationship but to them its only a sexual thing.
I know exactly how you feel, but the problem is that many people your age are looking for a realationship in lust, not love. I'm sure they aren't all looking at you in a sexual way either,not everyone thinks with a one track mind.
Hope i helped
Kasper

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