Hey! My name is KyLee and i'm doing an advice column because, i enjoy helping people out with there "teen issues". So, if you need advice on something.. for example Relationships, Family issues, school, and many other things i'd be glad to help. Hopefully i'll hear from you soon if not, scroll down and read a little more! Thanx alot!
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Location: Lancaster, PA
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Age: 15
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Well,i have a problem.
Me n this boy started going out. He was so sweet to me, and so damn nice, i really loved him. Then he started to get a lil more being a jerk. Thats just him, i let it pass, because he was just being a guy. He said a few things that bothered me, i told him, he told me he was sorry millions of times. You know. i let it all pass. Then he broke up with me, cause " He didnt want a gf" We've been going out for 3 months and he was my first boyfriend and i really loved him alot, he seemed like he really loved me to. I was heartbroken. Then about 4 days after we broke up, he went online and i was talking to him. He told me " God i cant take it anymore, I love you more then anything, will you be my GF again?" and just because im stupid, i said yes. Should i stay with him and risk getting hurt again.. or break up with him.. IDK what to do, cause i really love him..He even told me if i broke up with him he'd practically kill himself because he couldnt live without me.. please help! (link)
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oh my..I think you should follow your heart. If you love this guy and you think he changed maybe you can give him another try. You have to get hurt in order to grow. If you decide that he is going back to his old ways then break it off before it gets in real deep because, then it is just going to hurt 10 times worse. Usually when a guy says he will kill himself... most likely hunny.. he won't. So just follow your heart and do what you feel is right because, if you rely on other peoples opinions you aren't going to do what you feel inside yourself. Which is going to make you more upset then before. Good luck!
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17 yrs old / Female
I have this friend who's a guy and we used 2 tell each other that we really liked each other and wanted 2 be 2gether.......it went on like that 4 a few months than a month later he got a job and he has a lot of extra after school activities and always w/ friends and doesn't even have time 2 talk 2 me anymore and when I talk 2 him about it he says he'll BrB or that he's 2 busy 4 a relationship now......I don't understand.....and its like now he got me all crazy bout him......and I don't know what 2 do.......
Can U plz help me and tell me what I can do??? (link)
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I'd tell you to move on but seeing that you said you are crazy about him I kinda figured it be hard to do. But, you know they say if a guy puts less attention to liking someone and doesnt chase after you too, your relationship won't go nowhere. If I were in your place I would stop talking to the guy to see if he comes to me. If he doesn't come to you then you know something really, most likely.. isn't there. If he does then you got something hun. Besides, if you guys don't turn out to be bf gf you can still be friends and hope for something in the future. =)
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