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so, this guy likes me. and i don't like him, not like that. but... he sorta won't give up. he calls me a lot, and he just keeps asking if i like him, but in different ways every time. (like, one day he'll say "do have any feelings for me?", then the next day he'll say "do you ever think about me?" and that sorta thing). Its really stressful. I keep saying no and feeling like a total jerk for a while afterwards. it's a sucky situation for both of us, but he won't give up. I dunno what to do! (link)
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dont answer his calls and dont talk to him online
if you still wannna be friends with him
wait it out
probly like 2 weeks
and then i/m him asking how he is or call either one
but you cant talk to him everyday or have the conversatons you two have too long beccause he will get the wrong signal again
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hi like well im bi aand i cant stop falling for strraight ppl and the gay/bi people i know i dont want im so confused i thought i was bi and i think im bi but like im like guys more and more like everyday and i have no idea what to do can someone PLEASE HELLP ME!! (link)
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umm easy
like who you want to like
your thinking too much into it
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hey, i think i need a bit of guidance, i just had my first heartbreak.
i know it will take time, i know what ive gotta do (girl nights, erase his number and so on) its not that part that worries me.. it's the actual letting go. what i mean is, that moment when i finally accept that it's over, nothing worth fighting for, the moment i stop thinking "maybe we'll meet one day in the future and end up together anyways" the moment i truly accept that he'll no longer be in my life.. yeah, that moment is the one i fear. It's going to hurt, so badly. I know that-- but what happen after that? after the days of crying, when you run out of tears,, what happens? caus this is seriously my FIRST heartbreak EVER, i dont know how these things work.. it's a weird sort of heartbreak too, like he didn't cheat, we didn't fight or anything.. he's still the perfect guy i fell for, the guy i love, it's just that i moved, to another country.. and if im lucky i'll see him once a year, but that's it. so it had to end, we were forced to end it. i know it was the right decision, but i dont know how to deal with it.. please help! (link)
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me and my first love broke up about 6 months ago IM the one who got rid of him, he begged for me back for about a month. but i didnt relize what i had lost. i loved him. and i let him go over somthing stupid, but thats not the point. Ill tell you what i went through, i cant exactically tell you what to do because honstly the only thing that mends a broken heart is time. Onwards;; 6 months down the line i still love him, i know i do, we dont talk anymore for various reasons but i always think about him. when i wake up he is the first thing that comes to my mind. When i listen to a song i think of him. 6 months down the line and us girls still arent over it, it sucks, and you will cry, and you will hurt, and you will feel really shitty. But you cant just stop there because it is the FIRST heartbreak NOT the last, cuz trust me theres mostlikely going to be plenty more.. so all you can do is give it time and a true first love never dies and you will never forget him or get over him, thats whats so great about a first love.
best of luck to you.
i send chocolate along your way! =]
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