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ok, well when ur a virgin and u get ur "cherry popped" it bleeds right?? well if ur a virgin and u wear tampons on ur period, when u have sex 4 the 1st time will it still bleed?? (link)
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It depends, sometimes it bleeds sometimes it doesnt, it just depends on the individule. Tampons dont have anything to do with ur cherry being popped, except i have know ppl do get there cherry popped "on accident" by excersicing, masturbating, and things like that. It is possible to pop your cherry with a tampon, but you are still considered a virgin.
But like I said, it depends on the individule if you bleed or not.
I hope i helped!
*DEE*
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ok im just curious...if your pregnant...will you bleed at all? and if so how long after do you bleed? (link)
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You dont bleed till you have the baby, then ur periods continue like normal.
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(I'm 14) I've been going out with "James" for 8 months, and at the beginning it was all great, except for his ex, Sarah, who, I know for a fact part of the reason he went out with her is because she's...She'll MAKE you go out with her, she has a way of making you, because she can't get anybody because of a bunch of reasons but she's a VERY nasty person (if u get what I mean) and not even pretty, or popular and just...horrible. She accused me of stealing him, and about a month later, came up with a note that he supposedly written to her, stating that he loved me, but still wanted to be friends with benefits with him, and also said that she could go over to his friends house and they could "have sex since i haven't had it in awhile" The second he saw it he ripped it up and nearly bit Sarah's head off, was the angriest I've ever seen him, and really upset since I refused to talk to him. Sarah though, has been known to do ANYTHING to get a guy, and she's known for forging handwriting, and most of her old friends who now hate her, were pretty sure she forged it. It looked a little bit like his writing, but barely, and the way she said "aren't you going to dump him?" Put it into my head that it wasn't him. So I forgave him, then a couple months later she came up with some more "notes" and one time he looked at me pleadingly and just said "I didn't write those" which I forgot about, again, but they always stuck in my mind. Then she gave a note to my friend supposedly from him that said he still wanted to be friends with benefits, but HE had a note from HER that she had written to him, with HER wanting to be friends with benefits, she admitted it, that she had forged the note from him, and BEGGED me for forgivness, with bull notes saying "I'm SO sorry i'll never do it again" I'd never been more upset in my life, because I didn't know who to believe, and it took a toll on me that I did some things to myself I'm not proud of (think hard...) Eventually I "forgave" her, pretending to be her friend. None of it ever happened again, but that had been the third time. Ever since the first time, I've been paranoid, always imaginging him making out with her, and I know they did A LOT of stuff last summer. And now with summer, I hardly see him because we live a whole 5 miles away (sarcasm) and he always has to work at night (which i know is true, I've been there when he's working) and I've only seen him three times since summer started. I broke up with him once, right after summer started, because another guy wanted to go out with me, a guy that I knew I wouldn't have to worry about him cheating and a guy who could go to movies with me, even if I didn't love him, I could trust him. I lasted 3 days of crying and screaming to no1 inparticular before I broke down and went back out with him. A part of me is telling myself that I have to break up with him because everytime he has to go on the phone, even after the best conversations that last for hours, a cynical part of me thinks "Is he going to see Sarah?" and the part that for some reason he never wants me to go to his area makes me even more paranoid than I already am. It haunts me, and I know it's not healthy, but I also know if I break up with him, I'll be more miserable than I've ever been, but a tiny part of me thinks it's better in the end, but I have no idea. I love him, he's wonderful, he makes me feel wanted and loved and he's just...Wonderful. But the thing with Sarah, and that he doesn't want me arond where he lives (btw, two of his ex's live there) makes me paranoid. And I need to decide now, because I can't go on living with those thoughts of Sarah in the back of my mind. Sorry this was so dang long, and help would be GREATLY appriciated. (link)
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Ok, call him on the phone and ask him up front , is anything going on between you and sara, if he stutters or anything then he's lying, then just say If you dont tell me the truth then i will break up with you, if he still says no then most likely he's telling you the truth, then tell him why you thought this, and ask him to help, and ask him to start seeing you more because you want to make sure. If he does admit to it (unlikely) but if he does, then dont spend another minute thinking about him, just move on and find some1 better, because you can do better(lol) anywayz i hope this will help, and i hope that i helped, and remember just talk to him and tell him how you feel about sara.
*Dee*
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