My names Tamara. I'm 18 years old. I love to help people as much as I can. So ask any question.
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Location: Maryland
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Age: 17
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Lol theres this guy. We've been going out for three weeks now- hes in my advisory, so we hang out all day. And i like him a lot but not like obsessive. I dont really care if we break up, but i dont want to quite yet because there might actually be something there. So the problem(s) are:
he dosent like one of my best friends-- but nobody does. shes sortof a bitch but i cant ditch her because that would be mean.
Half the time in class, he is really sweet and fun and stuff. But then the other half he just pushes me away and ignores me sorta. So last monday, i asked him if he wanted to go out with me and my friends this saturday (yesterday night). and he wouldnt give me a deffinite answer. he said ""it depends on how im feeling and whos coming"".
and he ended up not showing up.
and it dosent bother me that he didnt show, its just that he didnt bother saying that he didnt want to or anything.
and then theres the phone dealio. last monday, i called him and we talked on the phone for a while. it was really nice and fun but he hasnt called ME yet. i put my cell number on his binder, so he should be ABLE to call me but he hasnt. and i even told him to but he still hasnt. and i dont feel like calling him again until he calls me.
so all of these things sorta tick me off a bit and i wouldnt mind breaking up with him but i dont want to yet because we havent even gone on a date yet.
so what do you think i should do? (link)
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I hate to break it to you, I'd break up with him and find someone better. Maybe he doesn't like you like that and doesn't know how to say it. So it sounds like to me that he's not the right one for you. Hope this works. Oh and you should sit him down and talk to him, ask him what's going on and that kind of stuff.
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i have an amazing boyfriend, he does everything you could emagine a wonderful boyfriend doing. we've been together 5 and a half months now. i used to be so happy with everything, but he's 3 years older than me. i'm only 15 and everything is so serious now. he also get VERY jealous, and i'm not allowed to talk to other guy, text any other guys or anything, i barely even get to hang out with my friends. i really love my boyfriend but i keep thinking do i really want to be so serious, i'm only 15 i need freedom.
i need some advice on what to do here? (link)
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Hey, I know how much you love your boyfriend. But you've gotta think who's more important to you? Your friends or just one guy? I mean you can probably find a better guy who allows you to talk to whoever you want.
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