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Where should we start? My name is Idalis and I live in California, I am 17 years old. I have been playing sports all my life. My friends ALWAYS ask me for advice. I think I am a great advice giver, ESPECIALLY when it comes to boys and sports. Go ahead ask me ANYTHING!!! I will definitely love to help you out!
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Location: United States
Age: 17
Member Since: January 30, 2010
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Me and my boyfriend have only been together for like a month,and obviously valentines day is only 2 weeks away and I want to do something cute! My boyfriend is kinda the shy type..he always makes me make all the decisions and I do most of the talking and plus i drive and he doesn't because he waited a long time before he got his driving permit so he doesn't have his license yet. I don't know how i should approach what we should do on valentines day to him..or if he will come up with something! I've always wanted a guy to come up with a cute idea for valentines day but since I drive i feel as though I'm the one who has to pick something and i have no ideas! What should I say? Should i just not say anything and see if he comes up with an idea himself? (link)
Hmm... You should Use an old pill container
and turn it into a 'prescription for love' and fill it with Valentine heart-shaped conversation candies. Create a label on your computer that says: Take twice daily with a kiss.
That's a cute way to surprise him :)


okay, soo i'm 15 years old and i've never had a boyfriend before.. I find being my age and never having a boyfriend is kind of lame. haha.
I've always been really shy, so talking to guys is something i've never really been able to do.
All my friends have had boyfriends but they're all not shy. i've always been shy so coming out of my shell is hard, the only time guys really talk to me is to get the answers on a worksheet, or to ask me for a pencil! anyways, I like this guy but I have no idea what to do to get him to like me too. I don't have any classes with him anymore but I do see him in the hallways sometimes. when we did have a class together he was always really nice to me, he would notice everything about me like if I got a new pair of jeans or other little things and he would always TRY to talk to me but I was too shy to hold a conversation with him.
WHAT DO I DO?!
what are some ways I can get guys to notice me? I don't want to get of highschool and have no experience with guys.
How can I come out of my shell at school?
I neeeed help :(

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If he has a cell and if you have a cell, you guys should start to text, and maybe the next step to call? Once you call eachother, you will be more comfortable talking to him in real. BUT you MUST ask him for his number. So he knows you are at least trying to talk to him.


how do you make it hurt less?? (link)
I'm so sorry!
What you need to do is talk to someone.
Talk to a friend or family member.
Someone you know that's going to be there for you.




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