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Hello. My name is Veronica. I'm a girl from Sweden that now lives in Norway. I have a big heart, and I love to help people. Mostly I help them with realationships but are open to other things to. If you have some questions, or you need help with anything.
Feel free to ask. / xoxo, Veronica

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Ah, yes. He is amazing. He's so sweet, and funny. He has brown hair and these chocolate brown eyes, and plays guitar. I once san for their band when their singer was sick, and everyone teased me forever because i was staring at him the whole time and forgetting the lyrics! But... the problem... He dated my friend Hannah to get to my friend Leila. Leila is probably the prettiest of my friends, and is stick thin even though she eats sooo much. She is quite the unoriginal, though. Anyway, he likes her. And she likes him. They won't tell each other that, though. They dance every time at the school dances, while i just sit there and watch them, because no one asks me to dance. I really want him, but what can i do??? I need help!

Signed, Lovesick For an Off-Limits.

Well, its a tough call. Because Leila is your friend, right? And you would'nt wanna hurt her. So my advice to you, is to try and find some one else. Because if they like eachother, there's nothing you can do, or should do about it. Just let it go..

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HI! OK, i am going to give it to you straight. I think i like my best guy friend, who used to like me. But now that i have turned him down so many times, i dont know if he will still like me. Should i tell him? Should i go for it?

thanks, girl in love with the her best guy friend

Hey girl.

well, you should first try to find out how he feels. So hang out with him, and flirt a little but still you should joke about it and make it funny. That way, you wont be hurt as much if he rejects you. But as you told me, he liked you before. It's a big possibility that he still does. You should definitly go for it, because if you don't you will never know what could of been. It's better to loved and lost, then to never loved at all, if you know what I mean.
Please tell me how it goes.

, Your friend Veronica

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im 12..about to turn 13...and a female..
okay..let me tell you the situation...i am im love with this guy Alex...and ive liked him since the begining of the school year and i still do!...he has a girlfriend and i totally hate her...i think about him all the time and i tell him i love him, i dream about him and everything....what do i do? and how can i get him to go out with me?

Hey. Girl to girl, you should back of their relationship. I am in your situation right now, ecxept that my guy has a girlfriend and a kid. But we're still going out, we're kissing, and other stuff to. And from my experience, it's BAD.. really bad. You should either find another boy, or wait until it's over between him and his girl.

, Your friend Veronica

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hey everyone if your reading this i so totally appreaciate it.... so im 13 this boys 16 i really lke him and i mean alot ive had crushes before and stuff but him,.. he lasted for about a year but you see everyone tells me that he takes me more as a sister i mean you see tehe thing is we hang out alot and he really likes me alot seriosuly and everyone thinks he really cares about me and that we are really close and you see people also say that he has this flirty things when it comes to girls and i dont think he notices it i mean its not my fault i started to like him you kno hwat i mean anyway so the people that told me that he takes me more than a sister i came back and i asked them im like "how would you kno he took me more like a sis " they told me because one time i was standing with him and i told him that i take you as a close sister and he told me same here " that acually didnt make me angry it made me sad that i kno he probably doesnt like me more than a sister.. or a friend.. but it made me feel good that he cared about me and took me real close to him as a sister.. i just dont know what to do.. people are always tellin me get over the guy before your get hurt again and i really do! wanna get over him.. but i just cant.. its to hard.. its not like i can get over somone like that so quickly
what do i do??

Hey sweetie.
The trick to get over a boy. It's something every girl wants to have sometimes. But to tell you the truth, there is'nt one. If you really like this boy, you have to tell him that so you can find out how he feels for real. Maybe he just says that he thinks of you as a sister because he's too afraid to tell you the truth. If you're to afraid to tell him face to face, then call him, write him a letter or anything. You just have to find out how he feels so that you can find out how you feel. And if you truly want to get over this guy, you just have to keep trying. Start seeing other guys, hang out with different people. It's hard, it's painful. But you will get over him, trust me.

Your friend, Veronica.

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If been with my boyfriend on and of for the last 2 1/2 years. There was a really good friend i had that i meet before my boyfriend. We hooked up before i even meet my boyfriend so anyway i really miss this friend he never wanted a girlfriend like everrr and i really liked him alot. So anyway he has a girlfriend now and he still talks to me all the time. In school he comes up behind me and gives me big hugs and if i see him and dont say anything or give him a hug and he texts me and says oh whats up with the that look or, why didnt u give me a hug i really wanted a hug. And a few times he asked if i missed him. Of course i said yeah and then he kind of started being a jerk and was like ash your jealous of me and my girlfriend arent u trying to be funny but it wasnt all that amusing to me of course. I dont get it whats up with him?

Hello.
It's ovious what's wrong with him.
He likes you girl. It's written all over him. You have to figure out if you want to be with your boyfriend or this other guy. If you want to be with this other guy, try playing a little hard to get. Boys always want what they can't have. If you want to be with your boyfriend. Then just make him understand that. If he asks you if you are jealous, then ask him if he is on you? If you have any questions at all, feel free to ask me.

,Veronica

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