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Q: Does anyone know what the beginning stages of falling in love are like? Because I think I'm falling for a guy at work. These are my symptoms: constantly thinking about him with a smile on my face; friends asking me why I'm smiling (I'm not even aware of it it's because I'm thinking about him); getting butterflies when I see him; blushing when he looks at me. I also think he feels the same way about me. He works at the same store as me. About a month ago I went for drinks with him and some other co-workers. He was staring at me and smiling at me when I was dancing; and at work lately he's been staring at me and when I walked into the staffroom the other day as soon as I walked in he was staring at me and held my gaze. When he walks down my department he will look down the aisle to see if I'm working.
Do you think I'm in love with him? And more importantly do you think he's falling in love with me? When we look at each other I feel like I can't breathe.
I'm in the same situation with a guy I work with. I'm 22 and he makes me feel like a giddy teenager. I got it all too...the butterflies, smiling while thinking about him, and my guy also looks and me and seems to be interested. It's tough especially since it's someone at work and that can be awkward if he doesn't. Anyways you got a huge crush just like I do. I think the guy might feel the same way just as I think my guy likes me. Men are hard to figure out. I just can't believe someone is in the same situation as me. Oh also see how he treats others in the office and if he's different with them then with you it might even be more possible. Me and my guy act like a couple of little kids around each other. It's cute. Hope it works out for ya.
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