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I might not have the best life but when it comes to helping ppl i seem to do a pritty good job. I have been through it all the relationships the drama at school and the tough times at home. If i cant help you i hope someone can.
Gender: Female
Location: Florida
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
AIM: Suchtig2ihr
Yahoo: sum1hasmyusername
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Member Since: October 17, 2004
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-does he like me or does he like herr???
---is it me or is it her...or am i really her?
(sry i know this is long)


ok ..im 14/f and one of my best friends is 14/m..he doesnt go to my school...although lives in the district and i seem him here and there...hes been askin me how to ask a girl out..and i kept telling him to be himself..he just wont listen to me on that part advice...and he kepts telling me to put myself in that position..and i said "no" then he said "well its not hard 4 u ur a girl" and i said "its hard 4 us as well..bc we have to turn down guys we dont like"..and i dk how to tell just to be himself..bc he wont listen to that...and he a few days ago he asked me "how do i ask a girl out and not get turned down??"..and im like idk its not something predictable...and he goes to a private school..and i go to public school..so i have no clue who this girl is..if i did ..i would have asked her if she liked him..but i dk ....so im pointless at this point...-thx

P.S. also...i asked him last night on-line what this girls name is and he said "marissa" and i asked him way be4 that.."what would you say if i said i liked you" and he said "i dunno" and said well what would your 1st response be if i said i did and he said "u do?" and i said oooo..then he said something or w/e and i said you scare me sometimes and he didnt say anything for 2 mins and i said..."do you care that you do sometimes" and he said "yea"..and i said "how much?" and he said "______________________________________________________________________________"
and i said "ooohh"..and when we got into an little argument over what is harder being a girl or being a guy...and he said we have it easier..and when i said "no we dont bc we have to turn down guys who ask us out, i had to do it 5 times" and he said "w/ whoooo?"..like if he was affaird i was taken or something..ahh it drives me insane..-thx again (link)
Sounds like it was a big mess at the time something tells me he is trying to find out if u like him or not ans sound surprized about it.. i guess its about equil between the two guys and girls both have it hard with dateing you cant really say asking is harder then answering bc well.. its just as hard girls are afraid of hurting there feelings and guys dont wanna make fools of there selfs by asking and getting rejected. From what you tell me it sounds like he likes you but is really shy about asking and he wants to do it RIGHT!.. just wait and see if u like him try hinting at him that you like him.. if not let him down easy and tell him ya wanna be good friends thats all. well.. hope i helped x0xLuckyx0x




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