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at parties how do i get guys to want to dance with me? yuh know like when they want to get a girl to dance with them they just go behind her and start dancing .. well they dont do that to me and then there dancing with my friends and im dancing alone how do i change that

I really like this question. : ) It brings me back to a little personal situation.

I remember back in my navy days, I was at a club and I saw this really cute girl but she was just so confident in herself. She had never even noticed me. Talking to a buddy of mine he told me to just go up behind her and start dancing but I couldn't muster the courage. Eventually, he literally shoved me against her forcing me to start dancing. It turned out just fine, but there was a better way.

What I learned from this.. I would have felt a lot more confident in just going up to dance with her myself if she'd at least said Hi beforehand.

What I'd recommend that you do is just a little flirting. Go up to a cute guy, grin, and just say "Hi! Great party right? Do you wanna dance or something?". Be real casual, smile a whole lot, and try to come off as cute as possible.

or.. you could try and be all cute and pout about it like.. Go up to a guy you think is cute..
Put on a playful little frown, (not a big frown) just make it obvious that its a fake frown. And say.

"none of the cute guys are dancing wif me.. : (
Will you dance wif me cute guy?"

Most likely, they'll be flattered, and they'll smile and say sure.

Hope i was able to help! : )

Just be really cute and talk to the guys! Sooner or later, you'll get one dancing with you! I promise!

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