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I’ve been talking to a guy for about 5 months now (haven’t met yet). He constantly tells me that he’s certain I’m the one he sees a future with. Always treating us like we’re in a relationship. However, he’s regularly talking to other girls & even tells me about it. When I ask him if he wants to move on from me, he’s very firm on not letting that happen. He also has a very strong visceral reaction towards me interacting with other men. I’m not sure what I should do... (link)
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Red Flags everywhere! Do not get invested in this guy. Move on. You haven’t even met and yet he is already being possessive when he hears that you are talking to other guys. However, he not only does the same thing but tries to test you and make you jealous by telling you. You should never have to fight for someone, especially at the beginning of a relationship. That should be when things are the easiest. It will only get harder from here on out.
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Rating: 5
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thank you for the advice, I appreciate it! :)
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