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Hi I'm a 31 year old male, and about 6 months ago I ended a 4 year relationship, And about 6 weeks ago I met another young lady, thing is with my last relationship, we had the biggest connection ever, Like we were inseparable... And with the new girl, she's attractive, have a nice career... but it's too demanding, and some days we barely talk, she goes to bed to early, we mainly communicate via text message, because we live in two separate states, so when we do communicate, it's always so many time lapse between texts, and I like her, but she bores me, are conversations never have any real foundation, and she's just seems too busy for a relationship... Yet she makes the effort to text message me daily, multiple times a day, Were barely together, because like I said her career is way to demanding, and she travels a lot... But for some reason, I've been trying my best to hold on, and make it better... but everyday is the same... I mean I love advice from ppl who have no attachment to me whatsoever, it's more honest that way... What should I do? I want to remain the good guy here (link)
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Hey,
I know this will sound tough but i think it's the only way
By reading your question i got a side of the topic as you said
You left from a big relationship and you don't want her to be heartbroken but as you said she lives two states away and there is no action in this relationship you meet once a while and mostly text but remember in a relationship both must be happy and as it seems you just enjoy the communication but
A relationship is doomed if it has no regular live contact not calling or texting what i'm saying if you haven't understood yet is that you must end this thing if you're not happy end it you might feel like a jerk but it's the best thing for you
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Thank u so much, I needed someone to tell me this
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