Member Since: June 23, 2014
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Last Update: June 24, 2014
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so basically im having trouble deciding if i should break up with my byfriend he dosnt message me first we barley hang out and when we do we dont really talk we like kiss in stuff i dont know what to do should i stay and see where things go or dump him because honestly i dont feel like we are gonna last
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Ask yourself first ' How much do I like this guy? ' If you gotta think about it then either you should get to know him a little better or if he aint that hot, then dump him...
If you like this guy teh keep reading. Guys dont think like girls so sometime you need to think like them in order to communicate, Thats right .. it s that word communicate. Now I m gonna warn you.. it wont be easy ... but it works.
First, stop kissing and stuff .. instead say 'Hey I wanna talk to you' ... dont get all mushy and emotional cause then he wont hear a word you are saying. Start with something like 'Hey we've been doing alot of kissing but we dont do things like...' and list the things you would like to do with him. Pay attention to his body language .. does he look like he is interested in what you have to say ? If no, then thats a good sign that he is dumber then a door knob and you might wanna say good bye. Now if he does engage and show interest, tell him what activities you would like to do with him ... you never know .. he may feel the same way. Tell him in a clear way what your needs are, even if it is to text you first (although I find that irrelevant it might be important to you.
So conclusion ? Communicate and make sure what you want is what he wants and that you both have a common goal.
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thank you! it really made sense when you said it. :)
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