Member Since: June 23, 2014
Answers: 3
Last Update: June 24, 2014
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Alright, well here I go. (link)
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Lets see, you are daddy's 'baby'... asks if you still love him ...tells you he misses you ... sounds to like he might be feeling a little forgotten and insecure.
From what I understand you have grown up, have new responsibilities and new priorities. So sometimes. like many of us, we tend to loose focus and get all wrapped up in work, school careers and all those exiting new things in life and forget who stood by our sides .. our family and friends.
Sometimes you need to put the breaks on, stop and take a moment to reconnect with people, especially family and friends. Dont wait for a phone call... take a few minutes, pick up the phone and call him. Schedule your phone calls if you have to, set a day and time and dont allow yourself excuses.
If you have always had a good relationship with your dad, nurture it. In fact nurture all your good relationships, they will only grow as you do. Never measure who calls who or who calls more.. Your dad may not call because he may feel like he is disrupting the new family dynamic or maybe he feels you want space. Whatever the case may be, we all tend to take for granted that our loved ones are around and we always think ' .. there is always tomorrow or next week ... ' but we can never predict tomorrow so best do it today.
So long answer short: Call your dad. If you never get around to it, it s because you are simply becoming a busy body and you need to slow down and maybe keep a schedule.
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Rating: 5
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Thank you for answering honestly. I think I needed to hear that. That's exactly what I was doing, making up excuses.
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