Member Since: December 11, 2013
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I dont know what to do, im inlove with him i think about him all the time we text and call all the time and she has no idea.. i feel so guilty (link)
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I once went through the same situation with my best friend.
Here is the hard part, sometimes, we can't control our feelings. Sometimes you need to pause for a moment and think, who is your friend to you?
The simple answer is, if you care enough about her, you wouldn't have started talking to her ex in the first place. But, then again things do happen. Secondly, ask yourself, how would you feel in her position?
If you care about your friend enough, you will let him go, because honestly speaking the fact is, that us "girls" & "Guys" need to have each others backs when it comes to break ups and what not.
I am not doubting tour feelings for him, but the guilt that your feeling is telling you something, that "this is wrong."
In the end it is your choice, because to tell you the truth, once you start seeing this guy, and it one day ends, your going to look back at the past and say, "wow, I lost a good friend, because I was selfish." Also, if this guy cared about how you felt and how your friend felt he wouldn't have started anything in the first place.
Finally, there are a million fish in the sea, looking for a girl like you.
Is he worth loosing a friend?
P.s. I choice my friend, and we have been best friends for 10 years now. :)
The Choice is yours, GOODLUCK!
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Thank you SO much! If I didn't hear you, I would have lost out. :)
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