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E-mail: ashleyhellin@yahoo.com
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Age: 16
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Hi, I'm a teenage girl and I've always felt there's something wrong with me because of the way everyone treats me. They always leave me out, and I am a gal who usually goes with the flow, but to be honest with you, I'm tired of being silent. I have no friends, the people I hang with make fun of me, laugh at me, and some kick/hit me. I've been stressing over this matter for 5 years. I've spoke to some people about this and they've said its the things I focus on, apparently, that is why people treat me different. Others say I need to find help. Believe it or not, I've considered self harm because this is eating me alive! It's like this little trigger in my brain, it goes off every time someone treats me strange. People never smile at me, they just stare and watch me, some will nod their head at me and look at me with hatred in their eyes...Why won't anyone tell me what's wrong with me? What is wrong with me? (link)
I was exactly like you but I knew how to be more out going and everyone loves me
SO here what I did


1-((be kind but not too much))
because being kind too much make everyone loves you and then you stuck in middle of everyone get love you. I am now kind too much I never argue or fight with who hurts me and that's sucks ,even lesbians in my school loves me and run after me ,and that it's completely sucks ((so be kind not too much I warned you))

2-((be respectful)) to teachers first and your classmates and be your self in the class but more out going off the class .by this most teachers loves me and really smile at my face from ear to ear whenever I talk to them.

3-((smile from your heart not a fake smile ))not a big smile just a light smile when you deal with strangers or someone you know.smile whenever you feel it's ok to do that.

4-((be more out going out side your classes in the break for e.g))

It's just that what I do and now most people love me and I am almost famous in my school.It's simple people will love you from your personalty +this point :)



Rating: 5
You really changed my life! thank you VERY VERY much! :)




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