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Hello I'm in the 8th grade and last fall I was visiting my cousin who lives in another town from me and we were playing kickball at the park down the street from his house. There was a group of girls by the swings and the ball ended up hitting one in the head. She was really mad about it and said she would "kick our ass" if it happened again. She didn't get along as it is with my cousin so We laughed and started yelling back at her and threw the ball at her again. Then that's when she came at me and threw me down and was a full on fight which I ended up getting beat up pretty bad.
Thankfully Her friends and my cousin convinced her to stop after a few minutes even though she was mad and wanted to beat me more because her jeans got stained and wrecked from the fight. I felt so scared dejected, and worried on the way back
To my cousins house because I didn't want my dad to know what happen so we told him I crashed my bike into a tree.
Now this is my problem, the girl doesn't Know me.I'm on the school basketball team and we are playing the school were my cousin goes to, and I found out the girl is a cheerleader for that school! I'm worried and scared that when she sees me she is gonna tell everyone that she beat me up and all my teammates and especially worried my dad is gonna find out because he goes to all my games! I'm also afraid if I deny it she will want to fight me again after the game or something to prove it. Thats something I don't. Want to go through again, and what will people think if they know I'm afraid of a girl? I could always think of a reason to miss The game but we play them a couple more times as well? My dad would wonder why ever time we play them I come up with a reason to not play. My coaches too! Any advise would be great.
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True, you should have just left her alone and apologized, but now that its already done, you just have to go on. There is nothing wrong with being beat up by a girl. Just tell your dad what happened and I'm sure he'll understand. He might even help you come up with an excuse to not go to the game. If all else fails, you could try to apologize to her after the game. Who knows, she might forgive you and the two of you could become great friends.
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Thanks for the advice Pikagirl! I don't see this girl accepting any apology. If anything I'm. Afraid she might want to beat me up again. Which is what I'm Worried about the most. Even my cousin is afraid of her now a d avoids her. She has told him a couple weeks after the fight that she would beat me up again if she ever saw me at the park again. My dad probably. Would understand
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