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I'm a really chill person love tryen new things, and love giving advice... will I tryed putting my picture but dosent let me
Gender: Female
Age: 20
Member Since: November 25, 2013
Answers: 3
Last Update: November 25, 2013
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Hi :)
The thing is that I really really like being sick. (Having a cold/fever etc.) It worries me a little. I don't really get much attention to be honest so I don't think that it has to do anything with that. My mom works most of the time so nobody takes care of me. But I still love it. I currently have a cold and I don't want it to go away. I actually kept my old tissues so I can sniff them to keep my cold ._. I know it's weird, please don't be mean about it :/ Whenever someone close to me gets sick I get really jealous :( I do admit that I don't like myself very much so is this some sort of self harm? I do have the feeling that I have more of a right to live when I'm sick. Usually I'm just ashamed of being there but when I'm sick it's not that bad ._. When I'm sick I don't feel as empty and sad as I usually do. But I've had this since I was really young. When I was a child my mom used to take care of me and I liked that. But now she doesn't do that anymore so I don't think that I like it just for attention. Can anyone help me? ._. (link)
Hey, will I've been in your place I love haven colds, haven people care and taken care of me, but by time I learn that being sick is not something you want to be all the time, it could be dangerous and harm your body, maybe all you been wanting is a lil attation someone to be there and care once in a while... because being alone all the time can feel lonely like if no one is there when you need them the most, I know the feeling my mom and dad were always worken and I had no one there ...but one day I sat down with my mom how I felt and she understood and was there for me when she could and that was enough for me to feel like she cared..


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