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I am 21 and I've been dating a guy for 7 months. We've definitely had our downs and ups, but we always find a way to make our relationship work. In the past, this guy has hooked up with a lot of girls and also had a few long term relationships being 1-3 years long. At first, I thought he had a commitment phobia, but then he asked me out and I was happily surprised. Since then I have caught him flirting with other girls on fb, accused him of cheating once and had my upset moments where I've ended up leaving his house. When I mentioned that I thought he was cheating, he told me that is absurd because he would never do that to me since he's had numerous girls cheat on him in the past. But because of the messages I seen on fb, I get this feeling that he might be playing me though he calls me his gf... Yes i looked at his fb cuz i was suspicious. Now on the flip side: he is making time for me more, insists on cooking for me and is overall becoming the guy I hoped he was when we started seeing eachother. And here's where my dilemma begins.. I met this other guy not too long ago and we hit it off instantly. My first thought was 'why didn't I meet you before I started seeing this other guy?' and we instantly connected. Now this 2nd guy wants to date me. He says I'm the perfect girl for him and we cuddled once which was the most amazing feeling I've had with a guy before, though I feel horrible for doing so. I mean, just when I start making things work with one guy another one shows up and makes me question seeing the first guy. What do I do? I know you are going to say 'if you fall for 2 guys choose the second' and whatnot... but I just cant bring myself to do that. I like them both! I've even made a list of pros and cons between both and it comes out very close. I feel like ive known the second guy longer even though we've only known eachother a short while and I feel like the guy I've been seeing is trying his best for me and that we could be happy in the end... I've never been in this situation before.

I know exactly what you mean and how you feel . ive been in that situation so many times before. i think maybe you have the fear of what if you leave the guy you were with first just when everything starts going right for a guy you recently met. in all honesty its all about what your heart feels. if you end up breaking up with the guy you've been with for 7 months to be with the other guy or vice versa . if it doesn't work out with with whoever you choose , if youre meant to be with the other guy it'll all work out .

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(Rating: 5) Very good point. I definitely dont want to choose one over the other then regret it :b An I guess it will work out either way.. thanks.
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