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okay so i've been with my boyfriend for a year and 2 months now. Everything is great. I feel like he is the one I want to spend the rest of my life with. He knows how to make me happy & he's just the sweetest thing ever. We've had our ups and downs just like any other couple. The biggest problem we have is trust. He trusts me but it's kinda hard to trust him. In the beginning of our relationship everything was amazing, just perfect I never thought things would get so badly to the point where we almost broke up. We would argue because I would find out things that he lied to me about. He's gone to parties without telling me anything and I got mad because he lied to me & told me he was going to sleep. Then later I found out he lied about smoking. He told me he quit for me but he lied. & he's lied to me about other little things which made me question him at times. There were also times where I felt like I was in competition with other girls. Ive told him about it. & hes change. He stopped with everything & things have been getting better. But is it bad that I just cant get over what he did? Like its always in the back of my head & i guess i have some anger towards him still. There are times when were talking just fine & it reminds me of the past & wat he did & i bring it up & we argue again. Can you please tell me ways to get over it ? I dont know why I just cant forget that he lied to me & hurt me.

i cant tell you how much im the same way . ive been through the exact same stuff and i know the feeling. its hard trusting someone after they've lied to you. no matter how good its going you're always gonna remember whats he lied about and done in the past. its hard to just start trusting again.. the thing is if you want the relationship to work you have to learn to accept that it was in the past and that he's changed. you cant keep going off of whats happened in the past. not trusting just makes everything harder and you just get anxiety worrying so much. its not forgetting that you need to do its just accepting and moving forward. you just have to let it go and take small steps to trusting him again .

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(Rating: 5) yes i understand. thank you
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