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Q: Hey everyone! I'd like to apologize for the lengthiness of this question, but I would appreciate it if you'd take the time to read it

There's this boy in my class who I'm pretty sure likes me, because of these:

1-Every time he sees me talking to another guy or flirting with my crush, (his best friend) he gets this jealous look in his eyes.
2-He always finds a way to get to me when we're taking a quiz or doing something in class.
3-He comes up behind me a lot.
4-When I'm sitting and he's standing, he stands behind my chair until I turn around and when I do, he tries to kiss me.
5-When I'm talking to my friend (who sits across from me), he leans over and tries to kiss me.
6-Once, he came up behind me and hugged my hips in the kind of way that couples do and everyone who was around us noticed (all guys) and my best friend saw him do this too. She said it was REALLY obvious...
7-Whenever I walk into class, he would stand up from his seat when he sees me and when I'm on my way to my seat, he would walk up to me until my breasts are touching his chest, and when I back away, he only gets closer. From here he tries to kiss me.
8-In class, I would be talking to my friends and he would come into the conversation, trying to make me seem dumb, but I can tell he is kidding and just wants to see me do my pouting face that I do when he makes fun of me ^_^
9-In one of his attempts to kiss me, he has lifted my chin up and looked into my eyes and since our faces were really close, he tried to kiss me again.

He does other things too, things that I worry about, like:
1-He likes to touch my legs a lot and every time, he would move his hand up my leg close to my pussy, and I always have to slap his hand away, because he stares at me the whole time and has no intention on removing it.
2-He likes to threaten me by saying he will slap me. and a few times he did slap me. In "slow motion". Then he would point at me and laugh. If I had to tell you why I don't like him back, this is honestly THE ONLY reason why. The other things he does, I can deal with, but not this one. His best friend is always telling him to not hit girls, but he kind of shrugs him off, and that's just completely wrong. I like him, but the fact that this is so easy for him to do makes me very careful around him.

My concerns:
How should I dodge his kisses?
Should I talk to him?
If yes, How should I start the conversation?
How do I make it less awkward after I talk to him?
How should I tell him that he should ask me for a kiss when he wants one and not just dive in?
What should I do about the sexual stuff?
Should I tell the teacher about him hitting me?

Thanks to all that answer. I appreciate all kinds of help that I get
And have a wonderful day :)
No matter what, no matter how attractive a guy may be, under no circumstances should a guy hot a woman or touch her of she does not what it to happen. I know someone like this. He's a creeper. This guy and I got I know are obsessive. Just try to avoid contract with this guy. People like him become abusive boyfriends and husbands. I should know. My favorite aunty was on this situation. If you need help first surround yourself with friends. They will support you. Be strong and don't him do anything to you. Blessed be.

Thank you very much for answering :)

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JAlexis97
Hey I'm JAlexis97 and I want to be a writer but also help people. Let's kill prejudice so ask anything. I love the occult, spreading feminism, encouraging people, food, being a bitch, and everyone who is weird. My motto is,"Life goes on." So why not make the best of it?
I'm also on Secrettalk.com. Username JAlexis.

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