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okay, so i started working somewhere about a half a year ago, and my coworkers are REALLY awesome. i get along with a lot of 'em, and have made some pretty great friends. one in particular, Sam, and i have a lot in common, he's a REALLY cool guy. we both are passionate about art, music, theater, etc, and we have a lot of the same interests and hobbies. about 2 or 3 months ago, we started hanging out a lot, going to the mall, movies, art museum, and just plain having fun. He's become a great guy friend of mine.
THEN, there's another coworker, let's call him Will. Will and i have an... interesting relationship. it mainly consists of flirting. at first when we met, he just plain teased me. then as we got to know each other, the teasing turned into flirting, then EXTREME flirting, and now it's blatantly obvious something's about to happen. he's been flirting with me for 5 months. i have this feeling he's about to ask me out.
Sam confessed he had been crushing on me for a while recently. i told him that i was extremely sorry and that he is a GREAT guy, but i just don't feel the same. we were clear that we would not let things get weird between us, and that we'd remain good friends. Will on the other hand... I like him, (and have since before i met Sam), and i'm fairly certain Will likes me in return. Will and Sam both know each other, and are acquaintances, but they're not really that close. so, Sam doesn't know that i like Will, and Will doesn't know that Sam confessed. I don't know what to do... something's going to happen between Will and I soon, I just know it. but, what do i do about Sam? I really don't want to break his heart, and i don't want to come off as a sleazebag ho who goes out with one guy right after another guy confesses! Sam confessed recently, so the wound is still fresh. but, Will is about to make a move. I don't know what to do... please give me your opinions! did i handle something incorrectly? if Will asks me out, should i tell him to wait? or do you think that's unnecessary? WHAT should I do? xD! Heeeellplplp please! thank-you! (link)
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WOW! i once was like sam i asked a girl and she rejected me,the first days i was really sad, and i knew she liked my best friend but slowly i got over it, so you could just wait, and if will confesses too just keep it between you two an dont tell sam for some time until you see him getting over it. you just need to wait ;)
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Hahaha, glad you can relate! WELL- not that I'm glad you were rejected but, you know what I mean. xD! Anyway, that's a good idea, me waiting a bit. Holding off until the Sam situation simmers down. Thank you very much! :DD
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