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You don't go into much detail, so I'm left kind of guessing here. If someone claimed to love you and then hurt you terribly, you start by grieving properly. Have a good cry. Draw mustaches on all his pictures. Get it out of your system and it will help you face the future more calmly. Then, realize that he showed something of his true self and has done you a favor by doing so, enabling you to not waste any more of your life on him.
Secondly, you realize that you are still a whole person who has a life to live, has things to offer to the world. You refocus on those things and on healthy relationships and begin the process of healing. Those pieces will come back together, and they will make you wiser going forward.
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