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Hey! My name is Kizman. I love to help people in any way I can. I'm sorry if I can't answer your question.

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so i guess i've been a really bad person. i cheated on my ex boyfriend with someone else whom i didnt tell that i was in a relationship with someone. then i met someone who i truely started loving and started a new life with him. we're still together and i've never cheated on him, we're a great couple.
i never loved either of the other guys, i just used them because i didnt want to be all alone and i knew that they wouldnt want to be just friends. i didnt have anyone else because its hard for me to make friends. i was suffering from depression too and used to cut myself a lot which made both of them feel bad. i still used them even though they where there for me all the time. i guess i just wanted to feel loved. i know that all of this is over but the things ive done make me hate myself so much. how do i get over this and how do i forgive myself? am i even allowed to forgive myself?

You have every right forgive yourself if you're willing to. You also have every right to be proud of what your life is like now. You might be able to forgive yourself faster if you apologize to the two guys you cheated on.

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(Rating: 4) Thank you :)
and I did apologize
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