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hey, im jane and i love helping people out with their problems even though sometimes i can't help myself and trust me i've been through a lot so i won't judge you with anything that you ask me. anyway i love giving advice to those people who need someone to tell they're problems to. so ask me a question and i'd be happy to answer. c:

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I'm 17/f. I see all my friends have long-lasting relationships and they go everywhere with their boyfriends and they're happy. I've never had that. My "relationships" were all about sex pretty much. I have quite a past of guys that I thought made me happy, but really I look back and I've never had a good relationship. I'm attractive, have a good personality, have a promising future, and I can get along with any type of person. What's wrong with me? I'm almost 18 and I'm sick of feeling like I've been used.
I honestly don't even want a relationship with sex in it because I'm sick of it. I've never been on a date and I've never had a fun time with a guy that didn't involve sex. And thinking about it makes me mad. Why can't I have that? I want to stop doing the same things.
And now I like another guy and I have a bad feeling that it will turn out the same as my past relationships. How can I have a good relationship with someone? Please help. Thanks in advance.

maybe you should stop worrying so much about that. theres always that one special guy who will come in to our lives and make us happy. you don't have to rush in relationships cause you could just end up getting hurt. And, this guy maybe you should give him a chance. make him work hard to get you. i'm sure if he really likes you he'll make an effort to show it.

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(Rating: 5) Thank you. I'm going to follow what you said :)
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