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Hey, my name is Brandi & I'm 18! I actually use to have one of these accounts, but can't seem to remember the password, so I made a new one. I'm here to help not judge, so ask anything. (:
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Ok so from November-March I dated this guy named Brendan, he was my first boyfriend ever and he is really sweet and funny and a gentleman and so nice and cute and he is practically like the total package. I broke up with him in March and decided I just wanted to be friends. A week later, this guy named Ryan asked me out and I said yes because Im nice and I dont want to reject people because I know what it feels like to be rejected so I didnt wanna make him feel bad. He was kind of the player-ish type and all my friends hate him, and told me that he would only hurt me. I didnt believe my friends when I should've. I broke up with him after he started flirting and cheating on me with other girls. He thinks we're still friends like me and Brendan though =/ Brendan and I reccently started talking more and I think I might like him again, I broke his heart though and I dont want to fall for him and have him break mine. Im scared to talk to him now... =/ I already created a bad reputation by dating Ryan... Help? I want to be his friend but I think Im falling for him again. (link)
If you like Brendan, then don't fight it, just let it happen. But talk to him, of course, and see where you all stand, and make sure it's really what you want before you get back with him. I would say that he is scared of having his heart broke again, but I'm sure you all can work it out. As for Ryan, I would let him know that you prefer not to be friends with him, because the way he done you. I hope this helps & things work out for you! (:


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