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I haldnt spoken to my father in seven years. I am thirteen years old. My mother was only fifteen and my dad was nineteen. When I was around three my father was charged with armed robbery in nj so he fled to florida. Before I stopped speaking to him he only called me twice a year(if that) and I watched my mother and grandmother struggle to raise me without any help from my dad which is why I stopped speaking to him. Five years ago my mother met my stepdad and he's amazing. In those five years he has been more of a father to me than my biological father has been in thirteen years. Anyways my aunt recently called to tell me that the cops went to look for him in florida and he is now in jail in nj. She says that he told her to tell me that he loves me and that he is sorry but I don't know what to do. I don't think that he deserves it. I have even considered getting my last name changed to my mothers so that I have nothing to do with him. I have no problem talking to my aunts and uncles and cousins and grandparents because its not their faults it is only his. So should I talk to him or ignore him???? (link)
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In your shoes i'd never stop talking or stop loving my biological father no matter what not even if he killed someone and i mean it but i don't know about you honey nevertheless i'd be visiting him once or twice each month but that's my choice you should go with what you want but remember that your biological true father loves you...other than that its your choice
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Thanks. . .I tried talking to my mom about it but it seems to stress her out so I really had no one else to go to so this helps alot
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