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Okay so my friend's are saying two thing at one time. There saying I'm acting as if I'm with my old boy friend and what i did with him. Then there also saying how was I to know? I just want to make thing alright again. Okay so with my old boy friend he was always cheating on me. But when I ask him about he'd so no i'm not. So I start going around getting photo's of him and his lover. So when I had a lot I went up to him and showed him then he'd have to say okay i did cheat on you. So when I saw my new boy friend kissing this girl and he's hand on her butt with a lot of other teen's I thought why ask him about. Let me just get photo's so I don't have to go in to the I saw and and no bab you must have seen some one that look like me.(whatever)So I got photo's and pull him aside. Then I showed him and ask what was going on. He said that he was on a dare to kiss the same girl and as they kiss he or her had something gross on there lips. And he was going to ask me to do it with him soon as the girl he was with found some one. Asking around and his story cheek out. He said he was really mad about me spying on him. I had never thought about it that why. So I ask that girl he was kissing for help. when she tried he got made and said how dare I tell her and try to get her to help with our trouble's. So now she making it up to him. And now I look like that bad guy and she look's like the the good one. And she just had I break up with her (ex) boy friend so now she making moves on mine.Help!! (link)
Considering your boyfriend kissed another girl, I would suggest dumping him. It seems as though he is trying to place all the guilt on you so he doesn't feel any. In either way, you both were wrong, you following and spying, and him for being with another girl, though what he did was worse. I'm assuming you are young, so breaking up shouldn't be difficult. You'll find another partner later. I would suggest dropping him, because you don't need someone who cheats on you. Yes kissing another female that isn't family, is cheating. And chances are he'll end up going further with this girl. You did do a little wrong, but not enough to really cause harm. If anything though, next time you catch your boyfriend with another female, forget the pictures, go up to him and dump him on the spot. Because once they do it, they are going to do it again.


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Thank you I will be thinking about that next time.




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