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So last Spring Break this guy that I couldn't stop thinkiong about asked me out and of course I said yes. I liked him so much that whenever I thought of him (while we were going out) I would lose my appitie. So for the next week I barely ate anything because of the horrible butterflies I got from him.... A couple of months later things weren't going too well and he broke up with me. He said I wasn't good enough for him, which are words from his friends. My friends told him opposite though. Anyway, I know he was a jerk and I shouldn't be worried about this but one of my friends said something that worries me today...
I have a friend that is kind of plugged into ALLL of the school drama and such, he said that my ex still realllly likes me. He doensn't really ever talk to me and I text him once a month or so but he never replies. What do you think I should beleive? (link)
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The saying "actions speak louder than words" came to mind as I read your question.
His friends tell you that he dumped you because you weren't good enough for him. I think you should make it clear to them, so the3y can tell him, that you're happy to meet him as a friend but getting involved with him again is out of the question until he proves himself to be good enough for you. Treat him as you would any prospective boyfriend, with reservations.
Did he explain why he dumped you or is it all from his friends? If it was all from his friends, you need to check that out, sometimes things get confused. It bothers me slightly that he couldn't explain it to you himself. Are you so scary or is he so weak that he had to ask his friends to do his dirty work? Not very grown-up behaviour. Perhaps you're better off without him.
Hope this helps, let me know how you get on?
Best wishes X.
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Thanks. I am definitly better off wihtout him. I got over him a long time ago but I was just curious because this friend of mine is almost never wrong about this stuff.
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