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Q: hi. i am the same person that asked this question http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=600975. i was wondering, if i really decide to tell him how i feel, what would be the best way? text message? in person? i don't think i can get him away from his friends to tell him in person and if i try to talk to him around his friends he might be rude to me and he and his friends might make fun of me or something like that. but i'm not telling him how i feel in order to develop a relationship with him. i'm telling him because i don't want to lie to him, having him think i think of him as just a friend when i really don't. so how should i tell him?
Hey there, I read your previous question too and you seem to be fairly sure that this guy doesn't like you in that way and you said yourself that he's a "jerk" to everyone, so maybe telling him how you feel isn't the best idea? He may just upset you further by the response you get. If your friends don't like him and they have a valid reason then maybe you should pay attention to them. If you think he might make fun of you then this guy isn't the kind of guy you want to be hanging around anyway! you deserve way better than that

thanks. i go back and forth with this

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