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I am here to help you in anyway I can do in my power. I believe that it comes a time in life that we may all need some advice. And sometimes, you can't go to your friends, family, co-workers with certain issues so you come here. And it's very reassuring when you have some place to go. And people who will listen to you whatever subject it maybe.
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I'm Liz (22yrs) me and my bf(45yrs)have been together for a year already,I really love him alot he has made me feel beautiful things that no other guy could.The issuehere,is that his friend (46yrs)which I get along with, he recently told me he had feelings for me.Before that he told me that my bf cheated on me I was surprised because he always tells me "don't arguee stay relax with him"I'm like $&#@)% first you say something then you come up with something else he starts talking %#@$& about my bf and I'm like give me details and he won't he leaves me in doubt.So one night I took a #from my bf cell his friend called he told me it's a guy answering days passed and said "actually it was his ex" (days after knowing I saw a voicemail it was a girl asking him for money and to call her back I asked him who is her,he was like believe all they tell you about me you don't trust me you always think wrong.Then he's you know what it's over I was are you sure you don't want to explain he walked away later that day until today he's been wanting to get me back but my attitude with him is like distant and cold)My bf was pissed besides he gets jealous when I'm with his friend alot,so he told his friend why you've been telling $&@# about me and that why he betrayed him.My bf tells me one thing his friend other though sometimes I feel he's honest and at times he's not he also gets angry if I go out with my bf and dump him since we're always hanging out.I'm so confused [
First, you shouldn't have even put yourself in that situation... I really don't believe (an that's my opinion) that you should get that close to your sinificate others best friends, especially if it's the opposite sex...
So you kinda made your bed on that one honey...
And you should never believe or take the Advice from someone who wants too steal you away from your boyfriend. Very shallow advice...
And the fact that men in there mid forties, that are best friends are fighting over a 22 year old is inconceivable. In laymen terms, "Ridiculous"
I don't know you but, from the way you even write shows your immature. I could barley understand all the internet "Logo" you wrote. And I don't believe that you're mentally ready to date someone that age. You should be talking, facebooking a guy of your own age....
My advice, ditch both of them, and date a guy that's worth it...who's close to your age. have fun with life... Hang out with ur friends, concentrate on a career, job, whatever! Ditch them and move on, I'm sure your a beautiful girl who can get any guy she wants... so why even waste your self on these dudes
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thanks for your advice
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