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I'm afraid im not really a 'family' person. We use to have it all when were little, the nicest clothes, bla bla bla but now the economy is bad and everyone saves every penny (I'm 14 and I still dont understand what a penny will do) But yeah, I've been through some chaos before. And I put this gigantic smile on when in public and you dont know what's going on. Things have simmered down, but now it's me that feels burnt...I just wish I could leave home and go to college and live my OWN life. Tired of living in a household. I just want 4 yrs to go by fast, get out of cruel mean public school and go on with my life. Unlike some bums at school, I actually want to be successful, do the right thing, and make something out of my life. I know I'll need my fams support and my mom will be there. But right now....it just seems like the second to worst time in my life.....ugh!

So I ask.....what should I do? What will help me get through 4 more years? And how will it all go fast? (link)
Hey, I'm 14 too and have been experiencing the same thing as you. I get annoyed with my life easily, and somedays I love my family but other days I wish I could be in college. I think that every teenager has this feeling and desire to become independent, it's because it's preparing us for when the time is right for us to go to college. And because of hormones. But what I would suggest doing is finding some sort of hobby you like doing or something that you enjoy. This is what is getting me through this annoyingly difficult time in my life. I play tennis and am fortunate enough to have a radio show at my school. These too things are outlets that allow for me to kind of relax and forget about other things. Also, I have found that listening to music is a savior for me. It calms me down. Haha, as I'm writing this my mom is harping on me to clean my room. Well anyway, know that this a difficult time for tons of teenagers, including me. Just try to find something you enjoy doing and do it. My parents say that once you enter high school, these next four years go by really quickly. Hope I helped and good luck!! :)


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Omg sooo glad you understand! And yes, music calms me down....I write songs just to get the stress off. Thanks!




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