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Hi, I am 17 years old, and I have come to the point where I don't want to live anymore. Every time I find someone I like and end up with him, the only thing he wants is sex. So then I have to let him go b/c I realize the sweet things he had said to me were only to get to me to have sex with him. My heart hurts so much every time this happens, b/c I always thought they were being true to me. My other issue is that there's this girl in school that is always jealous of me b/c I'm friends with her best friend. My family treats me like I'm some stranger in the house. My mom and dad yell at me everyday for no reason. I feel like my life is worthless, no one cares about me. Now I feel like there is no one in this world I can trust anymore. I'm an object for guys, a stranger to my family, and my friends are being pulled away from me by their other friends. There's nothing I can do. I don't want to live anymore, I just hate everything and everyone! (link)
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I think you're a normal teenager going through your unique version of growing up.
It is hard to find out that guys of your age think sex should be available from anyone they fancy without commitment or even a relationship; friends argue and fight over who they like or dislike; families think you're just a stroppy kid who should be old enough to know better, but they don't look behind the mask to see the pain underneath.
Soon, you'll find guys who like to take things slower, learn about you and build a relationship; friends will start to become long-term friends; family may also become friends that you enjoy spending time with.
I think all you need is time. Time to decide what you want from life and the best way to get it. Look around you, is there someone you can talk to who may understand your feelings, a teacher, counsellor, family member? Tell them how you've been feeling and ask for advice.
Try to stand outside yourself and look at your behaviour as well as that of the other people involved in this, understand that part of growing up is feeling out of step with everyone else because you are becoming your own person.
Let me know how this goes? Hope this helps, X.
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THankks a lot! I took that advice of yurs by talking to someone and it helped. Things are getting better, but yes like yu said, I need time about decisions and I'm taking time to think about things(:
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