Member Since: August 23, 2011
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Last Update: September 3, 2011
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i'm 18 years old and I haven't had feelings for a guy for about 5 months. I watch all these romantic movies and shows and I want a relationship. I've had a couple chances but once I went on a date with them I had no feelings for them. I liked the chase and once they had feelings for me I wanted nothing to do with them. The last boy I liked I had butterflies in my stomach whenever I thought about him or whenever I talked to him. I tried talking to my best friend, telling him that I didn't have any feelings for any boys but that I wanted a relationship. He thought I was trying to tell him I'm a lesbian or bi. I know I'm not a lesbian because I like guys, but I'm not sure if I'm completely straight, even though I've never had feelings for a girl. I was wondering if the reason I haven't liked a boy is because I also like girls, but I don't know if I like girls because I've never had any feelings for them. PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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So im in the same boat. I'm 18 and have never had a boyfriend. Mainly because I've never had any attraction to a guy before. I know im straight because i like looking at guys but theres nothing ever........there. Yes it might be because you haven't found that right person yet, or because maybe you're realllyy picky. You could also have a fear of commitment. It's more common thn people think. Theres really no way for anyone to tell you what to do because everyone is their own person. No on can tell you what you feel inside or what's going through your head. You can always go see a counsler. I know i have an it's helped a bunch because they really try to walk you through things. Just keep looking around and don't get discouraged. It's looks like we'll be figuring this out at the same time haha. Keep your head up. I hope this helps.
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thank you so much. i feel like you know what i'm going through and thats my exact sitaution i'm such a horrible explainer but you helped me alot. thank you
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